2006-12-03 04:01:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The true question is "did you use her as a sex object", if the answer is no then you should try now to cultivate the relationship by getting to know each other by spending some quality time away from the bedroom.
If you did use her as a sex object, then I would make sure you clarified how while you enjoyed the pleasure of her company, you aren't in the right place to have a relationship and decide whether you'd like to remain friends or apologize for any hurt feelings or miscommunications you created.
Honesty with regard to anothers feelings is usually best....just put yourself in theirs shoes so you don't end up in this situations next time.
2006-12-03 04:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how she feels. What you need to do is to make her feel special by appreciating her personality, life, etc. Take her out on a date or small vacation, let her be herself and have fun. DO NOT have sex with her. Try and see if you can go for a week or two, until she wants it. Dont tell her you are trying to prove a point, just do it. However, if she is just a sex object to you, dont put her through this anymore. Nobody deserves that.
2006-12-03 04:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by chanel217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women LIKE being used as a sex object.
2006-12-03 04:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her something that is personal. Take her to her favorite resturante, and order her favorite meal for her.... buy her her favorite movie, or even better cook her her favorite meal.... if you can show her that you did actually pay attention to her, and listen to her she will love you forever.
2006-12-03 04:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is right.
This makes her believe that you acknowledge her as a true saying person.
Go ahead.
Dont spend a second.
Good Luck!
2006-12-03 04:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by x_squared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make sex an all time thing and do stuff she would like to do
2006-12-03 04:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tuco M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 dz red long stemed roses should do the trick
2006-12-03 04:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you probably did use her.
I think she would feel better if you took a 357mag and blew your own brains out!! :-)
2006-12-03 04:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have shown her affection and tenderness, and she isn't aware of it, then words will NOT get the point across either.
2006-12-03 04:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a seeing to.
2006-12-03 04:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by epbr123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋