just 3 nights before,i told my 3 month crush that i like him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now & i like someone else".he was VERY sweet abt it & we spent an hour talking abt life in general.
now,bear in mind that happened at this youth grp we attend & that was actually the last day of school too.so i won't be seeing him at school for 5 weeks.but i will b seeing him during the hols cos my friends are having a cookout thing at my place & he's coming too(generally,we'll be having a lot of hangouts this season).
ok! so,my question is,how should i act around him,now that he & everyone knows.there's nothing to hide.(i'm usually very shy around him & don't talk to him as much as i do with my other friends but after that conversation,how should i act?)my usual self?like hyper & very friendly?
thanks & ppl,i'm 17 so don't tell me 'go around & play with my barbie dolls'...i'm just learning to face certain challenges.hehe :^)
2006-12-03 04:01:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will be seeing him during the holidays
2006-12-03 04:13:34 · update #1
Wow you should smack the one who made the crack about the big girl panties... kick her in the shin... lol..
Just be the same as you are with all of your other friends... and who knows... he may see this and find it attractive... men love confident women.
2006-12-03 04:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by LuciLill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to act as normal as possible if he was cool about it the other night I'm sure he is not going to weird out on you at this party. Who knows he may change his mind some day and like you (Guys are so wishy washy anyways) just act like it's not a big deal, cause really it's not these things happen all the time:)
2006-12-03 04:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by myeyr2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 15:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now that he knows, act normal around him not shy,and treat him like a friend and try to find out who he likes and if you don't just take little steps and it might work out :]
2006-12-03 04:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by all_4_the_boyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't even worry about how to act, just talk with everyone and have a good time. ENJOY the day! :)
2006-12-03 04:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put your big girl panties on and deal. its not as if u told him you were madly in love with him and he turned u down flat. just act normal it may be awkward at first, but it will pass and everyone will forget soon enough
2006-12-03 04:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by frostytink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, just act urself, and im 12, so ull probably tell me 2 go play w/ barbie dolls.
2006-12-03 04:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like a friend cause thats what he is
2006-12-03 04:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Poptart20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you won't be able to see him for five weeks, especially at your age, it definitely won't work out. there will be plenty of time for relationships in your life.
2006-12-03 04:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Smith Jerrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just treat him normal. u both seem to be ok with the arrangement
2006-12-03 04:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋