ok..i really like this guy..but he is soooooo shy! He just doesn't seem to talk whenever i'm around! We were at this party and everything and there were all these instances when his friends would switch spots with him or whatever so he'd end up next to me and everything...but i tried talking to him and it was like he was mute! Did i do something wrong?? what should i do?? any opinions?? bc he's sooo shy!
2006-12-03 03:58:57 · 14 answers · asked by onetwothree 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for one he's probably scared a beautiful girl wants to talk to him. AN dalso he is intemidated because there are some many people around and he is probably embarassed that he might say or do something stupid. SO give him some time and when you see him alone go over and talk to him. HE will get more confedence doing it that way. Because his self esteem is low. SO give it a little time for him to get out of his shell and probably you both will enjoy each others company more everywhere.
2006-12-03 04:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is the guy? How old are you? It just might be that he is too shy and will need time. Is he outgoing with any other girls or is he still hanging with the guys? I can sorta understand his actions if he is pre-adolescent but if you are both much older then start talking to him if you want to know him better. Maybe try that if you are young kids too.
2006-12-03 04:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by TCay G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, you may have to take the initiative, ask him out, he will be better when just the 2 of you around.
2006-12-03 04:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by cosmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him 1 on 1
his friends seem willing to help this along
2006-12-03 04:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by ningamdo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out to dinner, he may be more comfortable just 1 on 1.
2006-12-03 04:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by matthead_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to get him alone...hes probably nervous not only because of the social setting but he more than likely likes you too. just try to make him feel comfortable. hope to help!
2006-12-03 04:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Raven S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he clams up when yr around because he likes you. take yr time and get to know him he will open up more soon enough. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site
2006-12-03 04:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey he likes you too. i guess he's scared to talk... this will happen to you also when someone u relly like comes near you. i guess you need to tone it down a little and come to his level... like make him comfortable and not like his interview.
2006-12-03 04:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run up to him shouting "LEEROY" grab him by the collar and lick him in the face then run off!...simple as tht ;)
2006-12-03 04:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move. grab him and kiss him. he will be so stunned that he wont be able to move. than foe good measure put your phone number in his pocket and tell him to call you.
2006-12-03 04:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋