I grew up nervous about having sex because i never got circumsized. I often heard how girls prefer a guy to be "cut" as opposed to "uncut". Is there any truth behind this? My mom and dad had an issue about this when i was born. My dad being black and my mom being German. She didn't want it done and believed i should leave it the way it was intended to be. My dad on the other hand felt that it needed to be done so i wouldn't grow up feeling like an outcast.
2006-12-03 03:58:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You won't be an outcast because your afraid to have sex. Just do what you want to do and don't let anyone stop you. Not even your parents should stop you.
2006-12-03 04:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by mscorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're no outcast. A lot of women prefer cut because that's the more common and what they are used to, and they've also heard stories of uncut guys not keeping themselves clean.
Personally, although either is great, I prefer uncut guys (that are clean). Their penis is typically more sensitive and the apperance of the foreskin isn't a turnoff at all.
Be happy to be who you are...and that you weren't butchered at birth due to some outdated tradition. Any woman who doesn't want to be with you simply because you have a foreskin, isn't worth the pleasure of your penis anyway.
2006-12-03 04:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is not a major issue. Is ok for a guy to be uncut. when we are with a man most of us are there because of feelings not physical atributes. Just find a girl that likes you and you will be just fine...
2006-12-03 04:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too bad your mother didnt listen to your daddy!
Sometimes you have to do what you think is best for the child during situations such as that.
Your mother should have known that some men find uncircumsized guys more attractive, but she chose to make it harder for you.
the good thing is that you can still have surgury done. Just make sure you have medical insurance to cover the price.
2006-12-03 05:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Little Black Riding Hood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK mister yes Ur dad was right Ur needed that done i for one don't enjoy sex with guys that have not been circumcised it make me itch and feel yuck and the sad part is the older you are the worst it hurt when u get it don't but it will help you a lot believe me
2006-12-03 04:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by MsThang 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An outcast??? weird. Its not true! If it was meant to be like that youdve been born that way. Forget about this and get out there.
2006-12-03 04:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should thank your mother for not letting you be cut! Women do not get more pleasure when a man is cut , don´t bother doing now as an adult either. Many men have done it and they wish they never did!
2006-12-03 04:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Eileen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I prefer uncircumsized. It feels better for me, if a person really cares for you, they wouldn't care. I think it is kinky. A girl says things before they try something they thought was eww. I thought so too untill I tried it and I loved it. It feels so good.
2006-12-03 04:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by jalmond87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women may "prefer" uncut, but it is nothing to be ashamed of. You should not be embarassed, this was a choice that was not made by you, and women can understand that.
2006-12-03 04:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by chanel217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been with a man that wasn't cut, but I have heard women talk, and they have. I've never heard anything negative about it.
It can still be done, so why not go and do it?
OUCHY!!! BUT it may help your mental stress.
2006-12-03 04:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋