Hi I am 15 almost 16 in 2 weeks. And like a lot of you... i have an overprotective dad. I hate asking him for rides to boys houses (which i hardly ever do ask him) becasue he is so protective.And i dont have a lot of friends, so when i find some people to hang out with, then it is almost like i would rather not go. because he makes it so uncomfortable and the give me 50 questions.it just bothers me becuae i am almost 16 and i will be going on group dates and stuff. And he is so paranoid just about me hanging out with some friends.And its not like i am the only girl that goes. But. he has 3 daughters and i am the last one. So i am the baby.he is 2 times as bad with me thatn he was with my sisters. And my parents trust me and i have never done anything that i should lose my trust over.I know that my mom trusts mecompletely. But my dad has a hard time. I know it is better than having a dad that doesnt care at all, but are there any sugestions or anyting that you have to loosen up my dad?
2006-12-03 03:45:15 · 9 answers · asked by cupcakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess He wants more for your life than the other two proved to be and doesn't want to feel like he failed with you being the last one home, He's got higher expectations of you and wants the best for you, believe me there are some dead beat boys out there and he doesn't want to see you ruining your life like the other two have done, your his only hope and last chance to make him think he done something right raising you girls up right ... Give him that respect and he'll give you more than any father has given to any of his daughters... I have 4 daughters and they are all in college and they were not that easy to raise compare to my two sons that didn't listen to their Dad. YOUR FATHER LOVES YOU AND CARES ABOUT YOU ALLOT and that's more than what most Fathers do for their Daughters at that age... Good luck.
2006-12-03 03:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by puppylovetfp.com 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 18 and my over protective dad is the greatest. my brother and sister and I live with dad as mom is off going to school and they are divorced. It feels good to know I can count on him to help me do the right things and to be there if I get in trouble. He does let me date now but I do not have a real boyfriend, just friends and we spend a lot of time hangin at my place. I know I am strange but me and my friends like having a dad around who is there for us.
2006-12-03 11:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Penny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried talking to your dad and explaining calmly how uncomfortable he makes you feel. Massage his ego a bit by telling you now how much he loves you and cares for etc but you are growing up and becoming a young woman not his little girls.
2006-12-03 11:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by bodecia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my dad was re-acting the same way as yours when i was 13. i was in the whole teenage thing.hanging out with guys. and stuff like that.
i am the only child. and when it come along that i was abt to have a relationship with this guy,he totally blew me off.and i didnt talk to him for abt weeks becos of that. im know im quite rebellious sometimes.i mean i am,kinder. and yeah.i've gotten over that. and it seems as though there's nothing you can do abt it.so try to live with it.
or tell him abt it.i tried that. it worked with my mom,not dad.
2006-12-03 11:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by lovelicious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep demonstrating that you are mature and responsible. Keep your agreements, if you agree to be home by a certain time, then stick to it. When he questions you remind him that you keep your word and behave in a mature way.
You have to earn his trust, and keep earning it. It's sometimes hard for a man to accept that their daughter is rapidly becoming a woman.
2006-12-03 11:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait till hes in a good mood ....after super the best...then say ...dad can we talk in the other room ...go with him ...sit face to face...and give him a big hug...then tell him u love him....after that tell him what you wrote here ...he will melt like butter ...but dont forget one thing ...he was also a boy once ...so go easy on him ....he loves you ok
2006-12-03 11:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry not going to happen. with having two sister's older then you. your dad is going to be overprotective with you even more.
2006-12-03 12:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by jesse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear a nice Burka when you go out, that's what they're for and they show off your eyes!
2006-12-03 11:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Youa re his liitle girl and he worries sorry i agree with your dad.
2006-12-03 11:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋