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My ex GF used me to get her ex BF back. i feel like ****. anything i can do to feel better? andone experiance something similar? it tough to find that out and know your whole relationship was a lie

2006-12-03 03:43:33 · 21 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

the problem with it, when she finally came clean was she sais she loves him and doens't care how he treats her. she loves him and thats it. how do these guys with no jobs, no life, and who treat their women like crap get the girl? i took care of her. i'm a good man, good looking, have a job, car etc and i get played.

2006-12-03 04:00:34 · update #1

21 answers

oh sweetie, i was cheated on and yeah it hurts like hell but dont turn bitter. Its just not the way to go and im sure you will find someone to love who will love you back. Shes a rotten whore, sorry but i just had to say it, I hate it when women abuse good men.

2006-12-03 03:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lexy 6 · 0 0

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2016-05-08 03:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

advance some balls, She is basically using you, have faith me i'm a girl. you will defend your daughter with no need to handle her pushing you around, bypass to court docket get visitation rights and locate out what different issues you may achieve this she cant dangle your daughter over your head once you tell her no. positioned your foot down and tell her NO, what's she going to do. And in case you purely supply her funds maybe you may think of approximately whilst going to court docket ask for newborn help so which you will positioned a decrease of what she gets, do no longer bypass broke attempting to make her satisfied. She of course does not care the form you sense. And in case you do no longer concentration on now if could have an impact on your destiny girlfriends.

2016-10-17 15:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sorry to hear that. All you can do is find someone else and hope that it doesn't turn out the same way. And ask questions very early in the relationship like: Are they're any boyfriends past or current that I should worry about you getting back with?

2006-12-03 03:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0 0

yeah that's what happened to me. my ex was with me said he wanted nothing to do with her and left me for her. came back 2 days later said he made a mistake and i forgave him. after 9 months, we had an apartment together and i was pregnant and we worked together and basically everything i did or had had something to do with him, he left me for her again, 2 days after talking about marrying me, after promising it would never happen again. on top of that, he has the balls to want me to wait for him because he thinks she's going to cheat on him. yeah, right, not after i lost EVERYTHING i had, i mean EVERYTHING. my house, i had to quit my job, i had no food, i have a kid now that he wants nothing to do with, it's hard.

but i'm better off without him. i am not useless and worthless like he made me think. and when he comes crawling back, cuz she will cheat on him if she isn't already, i'm gonna slam the door in his face.

and you should do the same. don't ever let her see that you are upset, just go about your life and make it look like you're happy, even if you aren't. show her you don't need her. eventually you will feel better and you will find someone that loves you for you and not as a replacement for someone else.

2006-12-03 03:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0 0

That's just what she is, a manipulative little whore. Just be glad you don't have to deal with her anymore. You're a free man now, just think...she is probably using her new guy in one way or another to get what she wants. She is a selfish, unhappy person who uses people to get what she wants. Not the kind of person you want anyway. Remember...you the man!

2006-12-03 03:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by lifeizgud 2 · 0 0

Never speak to her again for one thing! Turn to your friends and make plans to get a way and do something fun for YOURSELF! Learn to be happy with yourself for a while. Figure out what you do want in a relationship....one day down the road. Now is the time to enjoy yourself, your friends and your freedom!!

2006-12-03 03:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0 0

I've had a lot of hurt as far as women are concerned. The only women who haven't been bitchy with me have been ones who haven't got close.

The best thing for you to do is to try to not waste any more time thinking about her ( I know it's hard ). You need to get on with your life and concentrate on things you like doing and your friends.

With time it will get easier....

2006-12-03 03:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen 3 · 0 0

dude get over her she is the ***** i hav been in tht alot soo get over it it happend everyday she is the ***** anyway and u will feel better with the time there is noting to do about it expt wating 4 the time to help u get over her ok ..with u luck

2006-12-03 03:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by speed_street2005 1 · 0 0

they do that all the time

mostly its that they want to keep their options open

if they can keep 20 guys interested, they can wait and see who becomes rich or whatever first

we would probably do pretty much the same thing I think.

2006-12-03 03:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0 0

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