Am I stupid?

Question

My now ex-boyfriend was lying and cheating on me. I stayed faithful to him while he was working out of the country. Now he is partying up on his R&R with 2 other, having fun and I am the sad one? I am an attractive woman? He is a unattractive big, balding, hairy back man with a 2 1/2" penis. I use to suffer during sex, while he squashed me, trying to do something with it. But I loved the person I thought he was and put my sex life aside. Now he is the one fooling around. Everyone said they didn't see what I saw in him. They say he looked like a bulldog or toad. I didn't see it because I loved him. His picture and mine are on
www.myspace.com/misstaken77
If any wants to see it.
But am stupid one, he is happy and I am so sad?

Answer 1

people tend to resist change, so they stay in bad relationships, fearing that being single again would be even worse.

it shouldn't matter what size his penis is, nor should it matter that he was overweight and losing hair.

but the cheating is what does matter. you don't need to be with a cheater.. you deserve better.

it is natural to feel sad after a break up. just give it time and soon you will be ready to move on with your life..

while you are single, make a list of traits that matter to you in a guy. and stand by those values.. if cheating is inappropriate, then never stay with a cheater.. don't change your values and all;ow more just because you are afraid to move on.

good luck!

Answer 2

Cool page, lady! and good riddance to your toad. You can do way better. Why are you sad? Because you're human - you've invested time, energy and yourself in something that didn't pan out.

Change is grueling. Treat yourself to something you wouldn't normally. It'll give you a much-needed emotional boost which in turn leads to more positive thinking. Once you begin setting the positive energy into motion, everything starts moving in that direction - including your love life.

Now get on with it, girl. There's a guy out there - waiting....

Answer 3

you are not stupid but fooled by emotion you need to be strong and know that life has not ended because of this bald too short and over weight little toad
life is grand with someone who is willing to share on an equal basis and treat you right

Answer 4

His happiness is only temporary as you have the better half of life. You have to bring your self to realize it. DO more things with your daughter also try relaxing!! Try Yoga or Philates they keep you in tune with your mind and sweetie Let me tell a southern quote "He wasn't no good for ya!!"

Answer 5

You are not stupid for trusting him, but continuing to dwell on it and letting it affect you is pointless. Move on. Consider why you think so little of yourself that you would be with someone like this. I mean, this guy doesn't have any redeeming qualities. Good luck.

Answer 6

You're definitely not stupid. Sounds like you did have real feelings for him so you will be hurting some since the relationship is over. You're totally entitled to those feelings and the best thing to do is to is to acknowledge them so that you can move on to "bigger" and better things. ;) It's definitely his loss!

Answer 7

You're not stupid for giving it a shot and for seeing something in him. But, damn, it's time to move on and forget about him!

Answer 8

He is pretty unattractive, you can do better, just forget about this loser and move on, you will find love!

Answer 9

no ur not
u just dated a Jacka s s

Answer 10

Well-love is blind my dear...Sometimes things like that are happening-and no you are not stupid you are just inlove...But it will pass,you'll get over it...