whats the best way to get over this and just move on to the next girl
2006-12-03 03:23:41 · 13 answers · asked by bill m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u just block her out completly, u find someone else and recover, or in some cases, u try to work it out with ur girlfriend
2006-12-03 03:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like when you spend 3 hours digging ur truck out of a mudhole. The first thing you don't want to do is back right back into it. Because theres a hole there you made, you'll drop right back into. Rest easy knowing there are other mudholes ahead you can approach a little more carefully. The best way to approach a mudhole is to have some foresight. Once there, be commited, when you bog down you may want to give it more motor, but most of the time you just spin ur wheels. Sometimes it's best to gear down, let the RPMs dropand granny out. There's always stuff other people threw in there when they got stuck and sometimes theres a log. You just gotta get through, over, or around it. Dirt roads are fluid, the mudholes aren't because of the rain, it's because of others traveling them carelessly, letting ego steer the wheel and work the throttle.
2006-12-03 03:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear that your girlfriend did that. I know EXACTLY how you feel. My ex-fiance that was living with me cheated on me and left me for another man. I eventually got over it, and can give two sh!ts anymore. It just takes time man. Go out and try to do things to keep your mind occupied. Hang out with friends, play an intrument, or anything else. Please do not sit around and do nothing, because all you will do is sit there and think about it, and it'll just get worse. That is what I did when my ex left me. I wouldn't even leave the house and it about drove me absolutely insane! So, don't make the same mistake I did. Just go out and do anything to keep your mind off of her. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-03 03:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Blayzn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard to move on from your feelings.but if you get involved with some good activities and maybe go bowling and find some other interests to keep your mind off of the pain and loss this will help.go out with your friends and do some fun things and soon your pain will ease. talk to your friends and your family and spend time wth them.get on a league if you like bowling. i have met some really nice people there. i also went to church and they have groups there and people there are more prone to help and understand and pray for you.get involved with helping others and volunteer in places that are needing help. organizations out there are always needing volunteers. meet some new people and get to know other girls and be friends and soon you will find that you are healing.there are some good girls out there who wont cheat and they are good and descent.you derserve better.
2006-12-03 03:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even have to ask how. Dump her tell her to stay away. And find someone else. It's not that hard. Trust me. It might be hard. Depending on how much you liked her. But don't think about her. No matter how much you miss you, liked her. A broken heart is easier to fix then a broken heart that keeps on breaking. Once you find someone else that you like more then her and care about more. You'll forget about being hurt. Forgive and for get. Move on with your life and be happy. Seeing you happy will hurt her more then she hurt you. Trust me I've been there. Almost all of my long term relationships with my boyfriends always ended up with them cheating, Me leaving and my heart being broke.
2006-12-03 03:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are able to't basically forgive and ignore stuff like that. opportunities are severe you'll under no circumstances experience a similar about her, and also you should be treated extra valuable than that. I do believe that she nevertheless loves you, yet like you assert, there is damage now. once you flow particular strains, you are able to't basically restore them up, no count number how tricky you want or try, and continuing this courting ought to easily reason extra psychological damage to you. And what they say about once a cheater, is amazingly apt. You deserve extra valuable. someone who's keen to damage you that undesirable for an evening of casual sex is both unbalanced, has themes or would not comprehend what they want, and absolutely do not deserve you. it may damage like HELL now and for some time to go back, to dump her, yet believe me guy, you'd be happy you probably did in some months.
2016-10-16 11:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with friends and it should keep your mind off your ex. Once you get back to doing hobbies and hanging out with your friends, you'll move on w/o even knowing it. And why mope around because someone was a jerk? go out and find other girls when you're ready.
2006-12-03 03:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Bill -- You should just try and get out. You need to
get more involed and join clubs.Trust can be earned.
It truly has be developed over time.
2006-12-03 03:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by ARRIVE ALIVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...by giving yourself time & space to contemplate on what type of qualties you're seeking in a woman. Think about why she cheated and what type of diseases she could've brought into your bedroom... don't condone her cheating behavior.
2006-12-03 03:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus don;t let the next girl who come into your life pay for what youe ex did.....
2006-12-03 03:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by tutsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋