HELP!!! PLEASE ADVISE!!! Keeper or Tosser???

Question

Okay this is the 3rd person in my life I am considering but have not decided on yet.

We met some months back. We flirted a little after meeting at a convention. We talked and when I started showing more interest she got frigid and angry and insulted me. I said something back (dont remember it was nearly a year ago+) and she cut off all relations.

So a maybe 2 months back i was going thru old emails and saw hers. So i send her an email saying hi. She wrote back after delay and said she was happy to see me back in her email.

So i asked for her number (i had deleted it) and she gave and we talked and she said she was out of work for 1 month. So I proposed she help me in my org. We met, discussed the project and she was interested to help.

We met in a book store, and we were together looking at books. Then she went to the salesperson and asked for a book. I followed her to the place and it turned out to be KAMA SUTRA...lol.

When she saw me approach she smiled slyly.

sad thing is i found out she had a tumor and thats why she is out of work. she had operation. she needs another one in a month or so to remove another. when we talk 1st time she was all against marriage and dating and that. this time i reminded her of that and she now says "Well i don't know now, im not sure".
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Also i read her astrology chart that says she will not live long and die of tumors and swelling. She is now swollen due to medication.

I am really feeling bad for her. I flirted with her a little after our last mtg on phone and she got upset (little like before) and said she didnt want to do it (project) and hung up. I called next day and reminded her of mtg we planned after two days and she was friendly again and wanted to meet to go forward with project. We didnt make mention of her getting upset.

There is an emotional harmony or empathy between us and she just breaks out in affectionate smiles all of a sudden when we talk (like she appeciates me).

COMMENTS? TY!

Answer 1

go for it. She likes you.

Answer 2

that is style of embarassing yet this element got here approximately to me the 1st 3 hundred and sixty 5 days or 2 snoozing with a girl. i don't recognize how lengthy you have been dating or how lengthy the topic has persevered. a remarkable style of instances it rather is psychological subject concerns inflicting it, not actual. it ought to be a terror of being bare in front of yet somebody else, etc. My subject went away by making use of itself and that i grew to become a stallion. i might provide him a while. each so often men get overall performance rigidity. extra: If I have been you, i does not seek advice from him approximately it. that is going to in all probability make the overall performance rigidity worse. what's in all probability happening is that he desires to thrill you plenty each thing is shuttind down. It' s actually like an actor happening point in front of five,000 human beings. Like I stated, i suffered from an an argument like this for a mutually as, besides the fact that it went away. I even have fathered a new child on account that then and function familiar intercourse with out subject concerns

Answer 3

This isn't a "keeper or tosser" decision yet. It's a "give it a little more time or not" decision.

Methinks you are trying to make a long term decision on short term information in a short term situation.

You need to slow down, fella. If she's wrong for you, she'll probably freeze out on you again and answer your questions anyway.

Answer 4

If she looks like Pam Anderson on Stacked, I'd keep her

Answer 5

Keeper....for short term fling.

Tosser....for anything more meaningful.

My personal opionon? She's playing you.

Answer 6

hey what can you lose? she seems like she is interested and does not know how to bring it up to you make the move and see what happens

Answer 7

if you can stand the drama go ahead and hook up, you know its going to be the same thing.....i suggest move on

Answer 8

KEEPER

Answer 9

go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!