i go clubbing every other weekend and sometimes midweek.
i have been with my fella nearly 3 years and he hardly ever comes out with me.
basically you still need to look good.
always wear stilettos (boots or sandals) then if mens hands wander you can stamp on their feet (they arent called killer heels for nothing you know) it always makes them stop.
ok clothes wise.
i never wear a low cut top if i am wearing a short/mini shirt
and vice verser. if you do wear a short skirt wear some fashion tights. (most men are put of from tights but never wear stockings)
and if you dont want the men near you dont wear too much sparkley jewelery or glitter.
men are like magpies and they are attracted to sparkley things.
hope ive helped!
2006-12-03 02:42:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm thinking some nice fitting boot cut jeans, some heels and an awesome top. You're going to be dancing in a crowded room, so don't wear your heavy clothes because there's nothing more unattractive than a girl that's sweating like Whitney Houston during a urinalysis!
Check out the latest fashion magazines, inventory what's in your closet and put together an outfit that says 'I am here to party!"
If all else, have your girls help you out. That's what they're there for.
2006-12-03 02:24:05
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answered by Anonymous
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You should wear whatever you feel comfortable in and whatever makes YOU feel good about yourself. You don't want to go with almost nothing on!!! You don't want to (over) expose yourself - but be comfortable at the same time. Knee high boots -- go for it. Skirt --- go for it. As for the shirt --- you don't want all your business out there for the guys to see. You don't have to dress entirely provocative to get attention. As as for the hands wandering.....a man won't do anything you won't let him. So once he passes his hand somewhere you don't want and he sees you don't want that - he won't do it again. But if you entertain the guy and he thinks it's okay, he'll keep doing it. This world is filled with too many perverts - but keep in mind, there are still gentlemen out there that will respect a nice pretty lady. Good luck.
2006-12-03 02:28:22
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answered by apache_lizz 2
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I would say wear the exact same thing you would normally wear to a nightclub, single or otherwise. It is up to you to let the men know where they stand, and the way you dress is not what gives out the signals - it's how you act with them.
You could be wearing a cloth sack, but if you act all flirtatious and give guys the come-on, they will approach you. Wear nice clothes, but let the men know, if they try to get over friendly with you, that you are attached and are not interested. They'll get the message. Just don't send out mixed signals. Trust me, your clothes are not the issue here.
2006-12-03 02:21:53
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answered by helly 6
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wear something that you will be comfortable in. you shouldnt have to worry about unwanted attention if you just make it clear when someone goes to far - if it really is an issue for you you could always wear a pair of boots with a longer skirt - or a nice pair of pants. its all about what you will be comfortable in. you definatly dont want to go there in anything you dont, it just makes it harder to have fun and chill out if you are constantly having to worry about pulling this up (shirt) or pulling this down ( skirt). make sure its something you can dance in and you should always make sure you wear shoes that you are not only going to be able to dance in, but are comfortable for a full nights use.
2006-12-03 02:29:12
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answered by imdisturbed_217 1
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Why not just wear a pretty dress? Wear something that is more pretty than sexy, more demure than horny sex kitten.
Wear a one piece dress just above the knee with heels or boots. NO spaghetti straps, but short sleeve or sleeveless.
OR how about a skirt and a button down shirt with heels? and maybe a bustier`?
2006-12-03 02:25:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Funny, you just told us the very reason you shouldn't be out clubbing: Guys' hands tend to wander...you want to dance, take a dance class. You want to go out and have fun with your girls, find a nice restaurant or the mall and go shopping. You want trouble, go out to a night club and just wait a while...you'll get what you came for!!!
2006-12-03 02:26:56
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answered by wetdreamdiver 5
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Whatever u feel most comfortable in. If u wanna wear teeny tiny clothes then that makes no difference if you're taken or single. I dress to impress when I go out with my boyfriend and with just my friends. Guys can look but they ain't touching!
2006-12-03 05:56:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Wear whatever you feel comfortable in. Your dress is not what is going to keep the men off of you. It is your attitude. I personally have never had to tell a man it is not appropriate to put their hands on me, this is a matter of respect. If you don't know me you don't have the right to put your hands on me, regardless of what I am wearing. It is all in how you carry your self, present your self with body language Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 02:22:45
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answered by ? 7
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what the hell is wrong with you who wears shorts and skirts at this time of the season. if you do wear that **** every guy look at you like your retarded or something. all you need to wear is some pants , a nice shirt and some boots .
2006-12-03 02:32:02
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answered by Alicia-brandon15 3
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