Im male, virgin, and soon am gonna have sex with a another virgin girl. I want to know how to to everything but the sex itself ( when , where to put the condom,what to do after her hymen has broken, ) and other "usual" stuff for others. I really need help. Thanks
2006-12-03 02:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by Tudor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for not answering me question
2006-12-03 02:21:16 · update #1
First of all, she may or may not even have a hymen, and it may or may not break (it may already have been broken, might be too flexible to actually tear, etc.). My first time, there was no broken hymen, no bleeding, no pain.
Very important is going REALLY, REALLY slow, be patient, be gentle. Make sure she's into it, relaxed and properly lubricated, or you will hurt her.
MOST important is being sure you are BOTH ready and willing. Spend a lot of time thinking about it and discussing it before you actually go through with it. You don't want to leave anything to be regretted.
2006-12-03 02:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't expect to know it all on your first time. Being that it's the first time for the both of you, think about it....she probably feels the same way you do. It's actually special because you and her can learn together. As for the condom, get a box of condoms and get some bananas. I know that sounds weird, but practice putting condoms on bananas so you can get the idea of how to put them on. If you don't put a condom on right, it will break or come off. It's a matter of placing it at the tip and rolling it back. It's like putting a hat on. But if you put it on backwards, it won't roll back. Since she's a virgin too, she will probably bleed some so lay out a couple of towels on the bed before you and her do it. You could run some bath water so that when you and her are finished, you and her could get in the tub together - that's romantic. Good luck.
2006-12-03 10:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No prablamo. A lot of stuff you really can only figure out yourself. That being said, the first thing you need to do is be confident. Make her comfortable with her body. She's going to be naked and nervous, reassure her that she has a great body... even if the lights are off. Next, girls get cold, so keep the covers on as best you can. Some virgins bleed, some don't, but they all will experience pain...unless you're tiny. It is important that she is sufficiently "wet" prior to your insertion. Foreplay should take care of that. Once she has secreted sufficient lubrication, you can put the condom on, provided you are erect. You should have learned in school how to put a condom on. Let me just say only one side will allow it to roll on properly. Once you're rapped up, you can begin insertion. You will need to guide it in with your hand, or she can do this. With your dude in hand, feel for the wet spot with your pointer finger. Slowly insert. Thrust. Repeat. She should be in pain, but hey, it goes with the territory. GLHF!
2006-12-03 10:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, on the back of the condom box, there should be directions. but it's like putting on a winter hat, put it on, roll it back. buy some bananas, or hot dogs to practice with ok.it sound weird, but you don't want to get her pregnant. you will know when the hymen breaks, because she will start to bleed. also, it will kind of hurt her. (just a little bit) be sure to take it very very slow. when i say this, don't shove your dick all the way in when you first start. that will hurt like hell! just move it in a little at a time. if you go too fast, you could tear he cervix or something, and make sure she is properly lubricated because if she isn't, you could hurt her. when you are ready to stuck it in, use your index finger to find the wet spot, and guide in your dude in with your hand. hope you have fun!
2006-12-03 10:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I remember my first time she put the condom on me with her mouth I was 14 she was 30 what a great teacher and I thought I was going to hate school I had detention everyday now I know why I love history classes
2006-12-03 10:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Fergie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first be sure this is what u both wont because losing virginity is something very special to her as for u it is something u can never get back ..ok take it very easy on her take your time ...after you get going put condom on make sure it is all the way on ..put a blanket down so body fluids don't get on every thing have a wet cloth handy to clean up u/her...hold her close once u r done let her know just how u feel about this ...this will b something u/her will never forget that u have shared
2006-12-03 10:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
donn't insist on verginity , Virginity can be lost by a thought. ~St. Jerome
all about sex can be discribed as under
Sex: the pleasure is momentary, the position ridiculous, and the expense damnable. ~Lord Chesterfield
2006-12-03 10:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by v_adaniya2001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're not married you need to pump your brakes and re-evaluate your decision. SOOOO many things are just as satisfying as sex that I've unfortunately discovered after loosing my virginity several years ago and needing to find something to replace the addictive activity. Please play sports with your her and/or any other activities you can think of.
2006-12-03 10:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
virgins have been shagging well b4 the internet was launched. thats what friends are for... or brothers
2006-12-03 10:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont have sex before marriage
2006-12-03 10:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by pinky 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋