I was with this guy for a year before he went to the jail for sleeping with a 15 yr old. He got out 6 mos later but then went back to jail for doing it again & was in there for maybe 3 yrs. Before he got out he told me he would call me once he got to mexico since that is where he got deported to well he never called so about a month after i was able to get word to him. he called me & asked for money. said the reason he didnt call was because he had to find transportation from wherever they dropped him off to his home. he told me he would call me in the next couple of weeks but if he didnt that meant something happened to him since he thought he might end up beating up his brother in law. he has not called me and its been 3 yrs. i left many messages on his sisters cell since that is the only # i have for him. should i just give up? what if something happened to him? i still love him so much. i just cant let go w/o knowing if something happened or he really didnt want me
2006-12-03 02:14:09 · 8 answers · asked by honeyangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were going to get married and i was going to move there. i was just waiting for him to call me once he got there. he was my best friend. now i have no one i can trust. maybe i wasnt good enough for him??? maybe i should see if that girl knows anything? i think i have her # somewhere.
2006-12-03 02:30:39 · update #1
You are kidding right?? Hes a big loser and hes just using you when he needs something,because he knows you will jump for him. Why would you even consider dealing with a man whose been to jail twice for what he has done?? YOU must not have any confidence in yourself to let yourself get involved with a piece of **** like that. Move on with your life and get your life together,,find a man who will be there for you,,,not some jailbird.
2006-12-03 02:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say let it go. As fascinating as someone who sleeps with underaged minors, who is a convicted felon, who has spent an actual percentage of their life incarcerated, who handles disputes with violence, and has to hop across international borders to be with you as well as get away from you, the law, people he owes money to etc . . ., I can't help but feel that maybe you could find somebody else and that it just might be better for you. Go out with some friends somewhere local and see if you meet somebody. Just give it a chance will ya? Definitely, let this big fish go.
2006-12-03 10:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Another Garcia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you big time. He only calls when he needs something, and he doesn't say anything about this relationship going anywhere.
2006-12-03 10:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got used. Move on. find a new guy.
2006-12-03 10:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You can do much better!
2006-12-03 10:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are u doing with a guy like that
2006-12-03 10:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont wanna be mean, but hes not a good guy. gurl, you can do better, i kno it.
2006-12-03 10:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by JOrdan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....are you really that desperate???? Get a life
2006-12-03 10:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋