Hey, i'm thinking of giving a surprise gift idea to my friend to tell her how much i like her. We've only met up around 2 weeks - a month ago. we've seen each other nearly every week. Recently, we got distant and i'm starting to feel that she's ignoring me, because i was neutral towards her before, but i dont think she knows that i broke up with a girl by the same name as her, around 2 months before her and that is why i've had things against starting quickly before i got to knew her. This is what i've decided to do: I'm going to roll up one of her favourite piano sheet musics, with a letter to explain what i feel and why i feel like that and wrap a ribbon around that, put a rose into the tube and put that into the arms of a teddy bear, then sit it on top of a movie i borrowed off her so she knows that it's from me as soon as she opens the box which is going to be wrapped around with a ribbon.
What do you think girls, if a friend gave you that, how would you react?
2006-12-03 02:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think that i might be doing this too quickly? i havent known her for very long
2006-12-03 02:12:03 · update #1
O, i'm 19 by the way, maybe age might affect opinions
2006-12-03 02:13:02 · update #2
no, 3 times, we got together twice ourselves on 2 afternoons and once at a party at night, but she seemed to ignore me at the party =(
2006-12-03 02:15:40 · update #3
she might think its supposed to be romantic but it is really sweet so i would go for it. but i don't understand you said you met her two weeks ago and you've seen her NEARLY every week so you've only seen her like 1 or 2 times?
2006-12-03 02:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really sweet and lovely, but you've only known her for a short time, you could still have feelings for this other girl you just broke up with, and your transferring those feelings onto this girl. why don't you meet with this new girl explain the situation, and ask her if you two can be friends for now, with the hope that something real and meaningful can happen later. As for your gift idea it really is nice to know that romance is not dead.
2006-12-03 10:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by bty912324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure Id think it was sweet. The sheet music is thoughtfulassuming she's a piano player. But the whole set up,sweet as it is may be a bit much,especially since she's been backing away. Go much slower.
2006-12-03 10:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my friend who i didnt know that well after about 2 weeks a month ago gave me a sweet, cute and romantic gift like that i would feel for the guy automatically. Thats sweet! She will love it.
2006-12-03 10:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to Jordan m, I would much rather recieve the gift you described than jewelry and diamonds, girls like that are superficial and don't deserve guys like you. I think the gift is sweet and I really hope your friend likes it, your a sweetie!
P.S. Could you talk some romance into my boyfriend? I would love it if he thought of ideas like yours...
2006-12-03 10:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so nice, sweet, creative, romantic, cute, and thoughtful! I would love to get a present like that from someone I liked. I don't think it's too soon, great idea!
2006-12-03 11:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese.
hurry rush for it before anyone does
2006-12-03 10:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by v_adaniya2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats sweet. If she likes you I'm sure you will know soon after she recieves it.
2006-12-03 10:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by strawberry_fairy_6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god. that is soooo cute and romantic. why arent there more guys like you around? thats so sweet. i know id love to receive that present.
2006-12-03 10:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GO WITH IT MAN!!!!
You're cool and sweet. she's gonna like it.
2006-12-03 10:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋