A guy never said he liked me, and I asked him directly. He said he only wants to play with me, not serious affairs. So what does "play" mean? Did he mean he just want me to be his entertainment and never ask me to marry him or he means he just want to have touch on me but not sex affair? He told me he meant the second reason. I think both reasons are not rational. We've known each other for 3 months. We meet each other almost every day. I think 3 months is not a short time. And we didnt have sex before. I never meet a guy like this, stay with me but not say anything. He’s too handsome, and Im just ok. Are the handsome guys are full of themselves? What should I do to make him to be mine? Hes 29, Im 24.
Who can help me. Thanks.
2006-12-03 00:46:59 · 9 answers · asked by Ilikeraisin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:), i don;t think you should try to do so. He clearly said he want to play with you......he is not much interested in you. "PLAY" doesn't mean sex or something like that if a guy says he want to play with you then it's on him whether he would have sex with you or not, he may also enjoy only dating with you or something like that ..............
you want to make him your's.... the only way is to be as lovely to him as you can.... if he starts liking you he will be your's !
But as he said he just want to play.so be a bit careful also...... don't get too much involved with him ..... it may hurt you if in the end he leaves....
GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-12-03 01:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not going to be yours, he told you that and you should believe him. By Play he means that he would like to have sex with you but that is it, he won't be your boyfriend and he will never marry you but he will have sex whenever you let him and he offers nothing in return. You can bet that if you get pregnant(please do not do this to try and hold him, it does not work) he will tell you it was not serious and good luck with that as he walks, make that runs away far as he can get. You already know better than this so do not do it Keep your self respect this is not the one for you but someone nice is waiting for you to find him. Keep looking.
2006-12-03 08:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Young lady, you are being 'used'. Tell this man that you aren't interested in the kind of relationship he offers you, and send him away forever. There are good guys out there. Take your time and find one who wants you for all the good things you are, not just for sex or his idea of play. Incidently, the definition of play is any socially acceptable activity you participate in for the sheer satisfaction of doing so. Notice I said 'socially acceptable'. If it is not socially acceptable, it falls into some other category.
2006-12-03 09:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by President 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of "players", kinda the same idea.
He's using you and if you are cool with that then you are f-ck buddies.
He might mean no sex, but probably means no commitment or emotional baggage.
2006-12-03 08:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He just wants to have sex with you
2006-12-03 08:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by AL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just wants to have you for sex, most men are like that!
2006-12-03 08:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wants nothin but ur body, he wants to do withs with u like kiss u and have s** with u but does not want anythin emotional
2006-12-03 08:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who doesn't want to just 'play'
2006-12-03 08:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Tera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-10-26 21:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋