when we get so romantic,she always got the feeling of being afraid of whats next......
2006-12-03 00:13:19 · 9 answers · asked by disappointed_man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be patient and give it time, show her that she can trust you and that you aren't going to hurt her. Keep trying little by little but remember to take it slow, it will take time.
2006-12-03 00:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the girls are like that, especially the more reserve ones..and the first timers, but you should understand her in that particular situation.We're really afraid in that particular situation, its our self-mechanism to protect ourselves to the intimate part because for us it is very sacred.Do you want get that "sacred part" of her or you just want to be romatic to her?It is different thing.If you want to get it to her then she might neglect you like whats shes doing right now,so respect her decision and dont rush things.But if you just want to have some sweet moments of the two of you and not her 'sacred thing',just being romatic, then talk to her about that and tell to her what you really want so both of you could understand each other, and the result is happiness.Tell to her that she should not be worry because you will never do it to her until the time comes that both of you are ready.Show to her what is your true motive so you could win her trust.This problems could be solved by good conversation and love, so to make her fell comfortable talk to her so she could share whats also in her mind.And when both of you compromise things and get to the middle then you could now hug, kiss and embrace her forever without any negative thought residing in her mind.Hope I could helped you somehow,thats all.
2006-12-03 08:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
feeling extremely comfortable with someone takes time... i mean a girl is always going to nervous for a little while when starting a relationship... me and my boyfriend have been dating almost two months and i'm very comfortable with him but it didn't start out that way i promise
2006-12-03 10:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u love her let her no that n let her no how much and assure her that things will not go far until she is totally ready get to know ur woman find out why she is the way she is. all the best take it slow if u love her be patient n things will work out all the best sir
2006-12-03 08:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by thebeautifultakiesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just takes time, bra. Stay mostly in her comfort zone, then push the envelope and always let her know she has control of the brake peddle.
2006-12-03 08:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are always nervous about the first time... She wants to get sure it is the right place, the right time, the right man. So provide all this to her!
2006-12-03 08:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by JUSTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST FLOP IT OUT AND SAY TAKE IT OR LEAVE DON'T DATE FIDGETS OK THERE USELESS GET A S1UT THEY ARE THE BEST YOU CAN *** ALL DAY LONG
2006-12-03 08:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by p1mp_1n 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...so it seems to be 'down' to you so she is relaxed...and i mean DOWN...learn..or have you got it sussed....always..always..make oral sex mind blowing...and you never know......she may return the 'favor'...have fun.....
2006-12-03 08:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her trust in u.......
2006-12-03 08:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋