another thing i dont get, do guys feel a difference when they have sex with a one night stand and when they make love to the woman they love???
2006-12-03 00:12:59 · 24 answers · asked by Gaz K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the difference is this:
A one night stand is a girl who looks good at last call, a girl who has a trashy quality,a girl whois a tramp in bed, a girl who is socially expendable( most smart guys to not have one night stands with girls "that they like as a person".
Guys make love to girls that they love. Girls that they want forever, girls that have become "settled and comfortable" in a relationship but the guy loves they enough to want to stay. Guys make love to girls who they want to take home to meet their family- girls that have become family.
Guys also become "settled and comfortable" in a relationship. They enjoy being "the Hunter" -being dangerous and taking risks. Sex CAN be great with the right person- it can feel new and adventurous ,too!
Making love is more emotionally satisfying and safer- it is worth waiting for.
2006-12-03 00:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, real men feel a great difference between a one night stand (or someone that they don't have feelings for) and having sex with someone they love. Making love is a very beautiful and satisfying thing emotionally and physically in one great package. Having sex with someone you don't care about can be fun and feels good but is much less satisfying.
2006-12-03 00:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by waltstinkycorny 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From a guy who's done both I say one night stands are purely sexual, no feelings (except for that great feeling of sex) for the other person.Just a hook-up and then bye bye.
When making love there is a definite connection between the two involved. You can see it in the eyes and feel it in the touch. It has meaning, it's more for the love of each other than for the actual act of intercourse.
2006-12-03 00:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Buster 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have never believed in one night stands so when I am with my wife it is definately making love with my busy schedule and her being a homemaker chasing around 2 toddlers and doing the books for my business we dont have alot of time together but when we do find time to get intimate it is definately making love to each other
2006-12-03 00:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me they are the same --- i put the same emotions and passion into both
there is a difference between the two ----- a one night stand does not give you the depth of feeling and pleasure because you have not had the time to investigate what pleases your lady and over time your feelings intensify and make every act together so much more
2006-12-03 00:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first: Yes we feel a difference in the technique... and to answer the second: Yes; it becomes ritual with the woman you live with.
You must have noticed the difference between the first time you slept with a BF or husband and how it felt 1 year later!?
2006-12-03 00:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, you're basically just an object when it's a one night stand... they do. when it's with a woman they love, they have actual feelings. they don't with a one night stand. (sorry im answering this as a girl but ive asked many guys about this.)
2006-12-03 00:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they can, guys can have a heart you know, that's not to say that a majority of the time it is about the excitement of doing it with our animal instincts, but if a guy falls for a chick and that's a big IF they can find themselves wanting to be held just like a big girly woman
2006-12-03 00:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by gazooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? Sex is just a matter of 2 lubricated skin surfaces sliding against each at varying rates. Wow!!
2006-12-03 00:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how good the one night stand was.
2006-12-03 00:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋