we were together for two years. our fights were getting out of hand, then out of the blue she breaks up with me. the next day we get back together. the next week we broke up again. this time i did the smart thing and made sure (she was a crazy, irrational bia*ch) that we didn't get back together. we lived together, but since both our names were on the lease neither one of us moved out. my buddy, being the true friend that he was, found me a rebound girl that i was talking to. a couple of days after the breakup i was in the shower and had left my cell phone on the table. she went through my phone and found this girls number, got really mad, walked in on me in the shower, and smashed my phone into a million pieces in the tub. i knew it was time to leave before i would do something i would regret. so i get out of the shower, try to dry off and get dressed all the while shes punching slapping kicking physically and verbally abusing me.she told me to get out and pack, and i knew my stuff ..
2006-12-02 23:01:39 · 6 answers · asked by alex l 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wasnt safe so i began to pack up, while shes still maiming and abusing me. finally she leaves the room, i think i can pack in peace, but no she comes back a minute later with all of our pictures (these are framed and behind glass) and starts throwing them at me. shards of glass flew everywhere, as i was still trying to pack. after about ten minutes of dodging pictorial mortars she left the room again, thinking i could pack in peace. no she comes back with an entire bottle of vicoden and threatens to take the whole bottle. i was ready to shoot the girl, so before she could get a pill in her mouth i ran over (trying to get her to drop the pills so she wouldnt take them) i shoved her, but shoved her so hard she flew into the wall, really hard. after that she laid on the bed crying, giving me enough time to pack. come to find out while i was outside packing my truck, she found enough time to go upstairs and smash my guitar with a hammer. anyways, she gathered herself to stage another...
2006-12-02 23:02:09 · update #1
attack. like i was storming the beaches at normandy as i came back inside she began throwing pictureframes, silverware, dishes again anything she could find. i couldnt even get the rest of my stuff, i figured it wasn't worth it, so as i was turning around to leave i saw that she had gathered all our pictures that were not in frames and began incinerating them in a metal bowl on the linoleum floor in the kitchen which ended up leaving a big burn mark. this is the best part; as i was outside on my way to my truck she comes out the door behind me and she says, quote, "you didn't get any of my birthday cake, here have some!", i turn around and she begins hurling chunks of her birthday cake at me. unfortunatly she has a good aim. i showed up at my buddies house covered in icing, tired, and emotionally unstable. his cousin was dispatch at county so he called him and we had to meet the police out at the house to get my stuff. the worst part is another of my ex-gf's dad was a cop on the scene
2006-12-02 23:03:09 · update #2
p.s. i comend you if you actually read the whole thing!
2006-12-02 23:03:57 · update #3
p.s.s dont worry this happened over two and a half years ago, and im over her totally, but i think its a hell of a breakup story don't you?
2006-12-02 23:04:38 · update #4
dracony, i must believe that you did not read my story. what is wrong with you...she was hurling glass at me for god sakes, and besides the night before this happened she slept with another guy, tell me where i am in the wrong.
2006-12-02 23:17:38 · update #5
i missed my chance! why would i want to be with someone capable of doing this. this was not my demise, it was my liberation!
2006-12-02 23:19:16 · update #6
You should have let her take take the vicoden. I read the whole story and she's a nut case.... Did you ever see the movie, "Thin line between love and hate, with Martin Lawrence? His situation was a little different, but women both are nut jobs....
2006-12-03 14:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW, first let me say that u must have a great deal of self control to not knock the **** out of her, i would have. but im a girl so its different. secondly, good thing you left when you did, incase she had decided to do something worse. and thirdly, sorry u had to go through such an experience.....some people are just wack jobs, and seriously need therapy and lots of it.
Heres my worse break up story, i met my b/f in 2001, and after dating for only a few months he broke up with me. But the way he did it was , to me, just down right cruel. One night after a dinner date, we went back to his place to have some physical loving. After we were done, i was sitting there on his bed totally naked, and he proceeds to tell me "that he doesnt think this is working". I was heart broken, i mean i was majorly falling for this guy . In the midst of my tears, he decides to tell me that he is going back to his ex wife and kids. So with as much grace i could muster, i got dressed and walked out without saying a word. That was the most embarrassing, and probably hurtful day of my life.
2006-12-02 23:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, i feel sooooo sorry for you. hope something like that dont happen to anyone else. bloody hell she really sounds like a right so and so. anyway i hope nothing like that dont ever happent to ya again.
good luck in future relationships
p.s. i did read it all. man that is a heck of a break up story!!!!!
i don't believe that u shud make up with her in a million years.
2006-12-02 23:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by SJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really screwed it up!
every man with good knowledge of psychology would tell you: you missed your chance!
all you had to do, was make her jelous, what you did, and then rapidly devote all your self to her, such a quick change would put all back on rails!
besides, having other girls while you still live with one is a bad idea.
it seems like you're the bad guy in this story.
You two really should make up
2006-12-02 23:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by dracony_gimp 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lol i would of knocked the s**** out of her
2006-12-03 14:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by pookey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋