met this guy at a party wed night, one thing led to another and we ended up spending most of the evening together. We then went bar hoping till the early hours and he invited me back to his for more drinking. We ended up sitting on his sofa chatting and holding hands till 5am and then he asked me to stay over promising to be a total gentleman. He was, we went straight to sleep I woke up with him holding me and he kissed me for the first time in the morning. He is off on a boys holiday for 3/4 weeks on thurs, but asked for my number when I left and said he would call me when he got back.
1) Is the fact he was a gentleman indicative of him liking me or not being interested
2) Is it likely he just asked for my number to be polite
3) Is the fact he said he was going to phone on his return good indication he is thinking of pursuing this or the polite brush off
4) If he was really interested would he not call/text from hols nothing yet
any other comments?
2006-12-02 22:53:14 · 18 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be sitting there thinking you are luckiest woman in the world.
1/ He is a gentleman, he has shown you so much care & respect already.
2/ He has asked for your number because he wants to see you again.
3/ The fact that he has said he is going to call you on his return means he will definetely be pursuing this.
4/ Think about it. This guy is a gentleman, he wants to see you again, he respects you for who you are. He would probably love to call you from his hols, but again is showing you the ultmiate respect by not pressuring you, moving things too fast. He is giving you space, to think about him. So that when he returns from his hols you will know whether you have missed him, & want to pursue this friendship/relationship further.
I would suspect there are alot of women who would love to be treated the way you have.
Sounds to me like you could of found your one true love.
Good luck!
2006-12-02 23:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From reading all the other answers, there are a lot of romantics out there, the bottom line is how do you feel?, what is your gut instinct telling you? we that is the public can only tell you what we would like ti to be, but we weren't there so we don't know how he looked at you or how it felt to sit on a sofa for hours holding hand s and talking. I hope for all the romantics and that includes myself, that he is genuine and that he does call when he gets back, but if he doesn't then just remember it as a very romantic interlude.
2006-12-03 02:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by bty912324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can be a huge *** on this site and have been (do your oewn reserach) but I have always been honest.
This guy sounds like one of few things to me. Either:
A: A mormon, so he might have been sober all night and wont get intimate until married.
B: This guy is slick! He get you close and does the comfort thing, Then can't close the deal....and might not want to.
C: PLAYA #1...knows that he duped you into a certain feeling and that he'll get the goods next time he sees you.
D: A genuine nice guy. This is the option I hope it turns out to be. As synical as I am, sounds like a keeper.
BTW, what are you wearing right now? You horny? (for the screenname sake)
2006-12-02 23:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said, he defiantly cares for you a lot. Just be patient, he will call soon. I think you are a very lucky girl to find someone that special. And I hope every thing works out ok between the two of you. Good luck.
2006-12-03 00:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was a gentleman and the fact he asked for your number showed he was interested in you. time will tell when he gets back if he rings you or not. he might even ring while he is away if he truely misses you. i would wait until he gets back and see where it goes from there. but i feel it looks promising from what you said here. good luck.
2006-12-02 22:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a sweetheart.
personally i have never taken my phone on holiday with me and alot of the guys i know dont take theirs either.
so i think you should just get on with enjoying the festiveness and get your mistletoe out.
dont worry about him not ringing. would you ring him if it was you on holiday with the girls?
its getting near christmas and there are so many other guys to kiss so have fun (its the easiest time in the year to get a kiss or 10) while he is away and stop worrying if he will ring.
you arent going out yet so he cant have a go at you i bet he will pull on his lads holiday...
2006-12-02 23:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, not too sure about how he feels. your meeting with him was short, at best. if he was a gentleman, he would not ask you to stay over. he would offer to send you home. perhaps, he was totally smitten by you and alcohol was doing some of the talkings...other things to ask: what did you people talk about? take time to see if both of you are compatible. if he calls, greaT! if he doesn't, then, you need to uncover his background. too many things to ask. one night encounter is not the best determinative factor. good luck.
2006-12-02 22:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think option 1. Its all too easy just to hop in and out of bed with someone after a night out. but to be as respectful as that, I admire that...
If he's off on holiday, and he's asking for your number, I would say thats a positive thing...
2006-12-02 22:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Cy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know **** do oyou. this dude is gonna get in your panties and work the crap out of you . 1 2 3 4 u dont stand a chance I wish I got a nieve chick like you . I think i wooud have you pay for the trip too.
2006-12-03 00:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I keep wondering what's wrong with this guy. You just met him, went to his house after a few hours together, stayed all night, slept in his bed, and he didn't touch you. Something just isn't right.
2006-12-02 23:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋