we were together for two years. our fights were getting out of hand, then out of the blue she breaks up with me. the next day we get back together. the next week we broke up again. this time i did the smart thing and made sure (she was a crazy, irrational bia*ch) that we didn't get back together. we lived together, but since both our names were on the lease neither one of us moved out. my buddy, being the true friend that he was, found me a rebound girl that i was talking to. a couple of days after the breakup i was in the shower and had left my cell phone on the table. she went through my phone and found this girls number, got really mad, walked in on me in the shower, and smashed my phone into a million pieces in the tub. i knew it was time to leave before i would do something i would regret. so i get out of the shower, try to dry off and get dressed all the while shes punching slapping kicking physically and verbally abusing me.she told me to get out and pack, and i knew my stuff ..
2006-12-02 22:21:06 · 5 answers · asked by alex l 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wasnt safe so i began to pack up, while shes still maiming and abusing me. finally she leaves the room, i think i can pack in peace, but no she comes back a minute later with all of our pictures (these are framed and behind glass) and starts throwing them at me. shards of glass flew everywhere, as i was still trying to pack. after about ten minutes of dodging pictorial mortars she left the room again, thinking i could pack in peace. no she comes back with an entire bottle of vicoden and threatens to take the whole bottle. i was ready to shoot the girl, so before she could get a pill in her mouth i ran over (trying to get her to drop the pills so she wouldnt take them) i shoved her, but shoved her so hard she flew into the wall, really hard. after that she laid on the bed crying, giving me enough time to pack. come to find out while i was outside packing my truck, she found enough time to go upstairs and smash my guitar with a hammer. anyways, she gathered herself to stage another...
2006-12-02 22:32:54 · update #1
attack. like i was storming the beaches at normandy as i came back inside she began throwing pictureframes, silverware, dishes again anything she could find. i couldn't even get the rest of my stuff, i figured it wasn't worth it, so as i was turning around to leave i saw that she had gathered all our pictures that were not in frames and began incinerating them in a metal bowl on the linoleum floor in the kitchen which ended up leaving a big burn mark. this is the best part; as i was outside on my way to my truck she comes out the door behind me and she says, quote, "you didn't get any of my birthday cake, here have some!", i turn around and she begins hurling chunks of her birthday cake at me. unfortunatly she has a good aim. i showed up at my buddies house covered in icing, tired, and emotionally unstable. his cousin was dispatch at county so he called him and we had to meet the police out at the house to get my stuff. the worst part is another of my ex-gf's dad was a cop on the scene
2006-12-02 22:40:51 · update #2
p.s. i comend you if you actually read the whole thing!
2006-12-02 22:41:21 · update #3
p.s.s dont worry this happened over two and a half years ago, and im over her totally, but i think its a hell of a breakup story don't you?
2006-12-02 22:45:19 · update #4
Yes.. my fiancee was away from computers at a retreat for a few days and asked me to check her emails. She got a confirmation from an airline about a plane ticket to visit one of her old bf's. I asked her about it and she admitted it and and broke up with me. She claimed i was too controlling. Turns out she had been flirting with numerous guys all along and didn't understand what faithfulness meant.
2006-12-02 22:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she dont have the trust in u
breaking up that often is bad
it becomes an easy thing to come out of the mouth, it wont hurt that much when it comes out
for my experience. saying break up, then saying want to start all over again for numerous times is going overboard. i broke end it in the end
2006-12-03 06:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,congratulations on not retalliating back.I hope you have found peace of mind.Good Luck in the future.
2006-12-03 06:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats jus insane, crazy, mad! maybe she was still in love with u. ppl do crazy stuff when they r in love. but then again for her to hit n kick u so badly, i reckon u get the f*** out of there while ur still breathing.
2006-12-03 06:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by the unforgiven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great , I hope she reads it and knows what you think about her .
2006-12-03 06:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋