I just asked this question if it was ok to sleep with a boy not thinking of sex and i that was ok. reason because my best friend is mabey gay she tried to kiss me yesterday and i thought if she saw me with a guy she would no Im not gay but I think I might hav feelings for her to what can I do and still be friends?
2006-12-02 22:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's probably not healthy for you to sleep with a guy JUST to prove to her that you're not gay (especially if you are questioning yourself). That may be putting too much value in what people think of you, even if she is your friend. If she is truly your friend, start asking her general questions about attractions, relations, experiences, etc., not necessarily about her trying to kiss you.
Be honest with her and with yourself. If she asks you something, tell her.
Since this is in a spiritual forum and not one of sexuality, I assume that you have a sense of a Higher Power. My main advice: ask that Power for a sense of clarity and guidance in your dealings with your friend.
I hope I have been helpful. If you want to chat further, email me thru yahoo sn: marvinocolmani
2006-12-02 22:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Marvin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person in Sodom & Gommorah was not gay, or lesbians, But they went along with the lifestyle of the ones that was, The best thing that can happen to you is to get away from your so-called best friend. They are not firends, but enemies of the Cross. You don't have to be gay or lesbian, but if you allow that in your house you are just as guilty. God will look down as though you have accept that lifestyle. And Go will not let that sin go unpunished.
2006-12-03 06:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by birdsflies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. I would think that being completely honest with her, because you could land in the same predictament if you get in bed with a boy (cos usually they aren't likely to settle with just actually sleeping)...
I am sure you will over come it, it would be similar to telling a boy your not interested. Just tell her that you really do like boys and that she is a great friend and you want to be her friend, but you don't want to be her partner.
2006-12-03 06:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Abbasangel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure you posted this question in a right section? I'm sure you'll get no answers other than ''Read Bible to her''
Good luck, tough situation!
2006-12-03 06:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Regina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u talk to her and figure out when u are in all of this.Then you can pick if u just want to be freinds or more.
2006-12-03 06:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by miller j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried telling her you aren't into girls but like her as a friend instead of getting into all kinds of trouble
2006-12-03 06:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm so gonna violate you twice.
2006-12-03 06:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU WERE BORN FREE AND YOU ARE FREE TO SLEEP WITH ANYONE YOU WISH
2006-12-03 06:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by DICK HEAD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a CHICKEN HEAD
2006-12-03 06:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by mac-won 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋