2006-12-02 21:32:45 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do. If she doesn't feel the same way about you then there is no way you can make her love you. Sit back and wait to see if her present relationship works out - if you are meant to be together then fate will find a way. In the meantime get out there and enjoy life, who knows you might find another girl of your dreams!
2006-12-02 21:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I must ask myself: Is she really the girl of my dreams? I'm sure she is pretty, nice, maybe a nice figure, smart, but there are a lot of girls out there who are probably better than that girl i was in love with. Maybe my dream girl that chose another guy wasnt so great, maybe she wasnt that nice. I would need to realize that i'm better off without that chick.
2006-12-03 05:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how final the choice was. If we're talking "decided to date" someone else, I wouldn't do anything rash. I would wait around watching for the other guy to mess up, all the while focusing on improving myself. And I would try to be open to other girls who could become the girl of my dreams, maybe even the *woman* of my dreams. =)
If we're talking "got married to" someone else (and possibly "got engaged to" or "is about to get married to" someone else), I would go for a musical medication session.
I would start with listening to The Cranberries' "Stars" album (best of 1992 - 2002). Particularly "I Can't Be With You", "Ridiculous Thoughts", and "Daffodil Lament". Next I would listen to Dido's "Life For Rent" album, to savor the feeling of "I really love you and I'm sad you're gone, I will always love you, but I know I need to move on."
Then I would move to several Blues Traveler albums.
Live from the Fall: Alone, But Anyway, Love and Greed, Regarding Steven, Mountains Win, the Go->Low->Go->Run sequence
Bridge: Decision of the Skies, Back in the Day, Sadly a Fiction, Just for Me
Four: Look Around (already listened to Run Around and The Mountains Win Again)
Straight on Till Morning: Canadian Rose, Make My Way
And I would finish with "The Traveler Suite" (only released as an mp3, http://www.bluestraveler.com/download.php?gid=30). The first line says, "She was all I ever wanted...." The last line takes the train of thought a bit further, but I won't say here so I don't spoil it--if you can manage to get through it--it's 20 minutes long).
For a change of style, I'd throw in The Jayhawks' "One Man's Problem" from "Rainy Day Music" somewhere in the middle of all the Blues Traveler selections.
Next I would listen to Carbon Leaf's "Learn to Fly" from their September release "Love, Loss, Hope, Repeat", and "Blue Ridge Laughing" from "5 Alive!".
Now I would be emotionally ready for some Natalie Merchant: "Life Is Sweet" from "Ophelia", and "Wonder" from Tigerlily. I would go across the Pacific next, to some Australian music. I would listen to The Ghostwriters' (a.k.a. Rob Hirst and the Ghostwriters) "Great World" from "Fibromoon", and from there, I would go for some Hoodoo Gurus ("Mine" from "Blue Cave"), back to The Ghostwriters ("Salvage Me", "Second Skin", from "Second Skin"), on over to the Hunters and Collectors ("Back on the Breadline", from "Fate"), and then a few Midnight Oil albums (the Oils aren't exactly known for their love songs), and I'd make sure one of those albums was a live album. I would leave the "Oils on the Water" concert/album in my car, "Capricornia" in my stereo at home, and "The Real Thing" as my play list on my mp3 player, for about two weeks.
That is what *I* would do.
2006-12-03 06:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by ode2water 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cud love someone else but as long as the fact is true that u love her...no one can overshadow this fact. Just continue loving her truly. If she gets unhappy with that someone else in future, be there for her first as a FRIEND and then perhaps, u cud get a step closer. If she is happy with the other guy..u cud just be happy too that she is happy...afterall..u love her right??
2006-12-03 05:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by mad_integer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bridges and water no big loss but if i was with the girl of my dreams and she left me for somebody else i guess i would have to go postal. some unlucky sod would be getting a very stingy a'ss as i smacked them with paper projectiles from a rubber band.
2006-12-03 06:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the latest Playboy.
Look at the pictorials.
Dream a different dream.
2006-12-03 05:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by R J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bluebell has the right of it...I wonder if my soon to be ex-husband sees this one. He reads everything else I post or answer to. Though I am NOT going to be with anyone else, however my new roommate is a guy FRIEND.
2006-12-03 07:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick myself up, dust myself off and start all over again. No use brooding on what you cant have - stop wasting your life and get right back out there and find you a gal that you can trust and love xxxxxxx
2006-12-03 05:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by starlet108 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
go to sleep and start work on re-configuring that dream girl, cause the previous pre-requisites obviously wasn't met.
Seriously wish her the best and say 'when he dumps you ring, i'll be there waiting for the shag on the rebound'.
2006-12-03 05:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by curlyhurlymo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dry your eyes mate, get ya glad rags on and go hunting for a new dream. but don't spend too much time dreaming it is not good for you.
2006-12-03 08:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by madjedi32x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋