I never did this but wondered if it was ok can you sleep with a boy I am a girl in pj and not oposing sex is that ok or not please don't violate me for this question just put that you don't like it and reason and I will delete it. THANKS
2006-12-02 21:32:42 · 14 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you know and trust the boy and you both keep those P.Js on it may be said to be okay. But you sound very young and innocent so I am thinking in your case I do not think it such a good idea. There is the old top and toe (one with their head at the top and the other puts their head and pillow to the bottom) but I have heard of even that getting the better of young fiery hormones.
Best not to get into a situation like that for a while yet.Even if you both think sex is not going to happen,it can.Once you get that feeling happening .........
Hey, only a fool would make fun or put you down for asking this.It something you may have pr obs asking Mom.So don't you ever let people make you feel that way.I just had some racist fool making fun of my user name ,I checked out his prior Q&As ,boy is he a jerk.
Enjoy each day of being young,believe me you are a long time old.
You sound like a sweet girl ,stay that way.
2006-12-02 21:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by sistablu...Maat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did not mention your age, because age does matter in the first place. In the second place, if your sleeping in groups, there is no problem at all.
Since your question insinuate some sensitive situation wherein a boy and a girl sleep together, there could be a possibility of sexual temptations for both of you and the consequences could be early pregnancy.
If the boy is your cousin or a relative, the possiblity of sexual arousal is ruled out. Yes, it is OK to sleep with a boy in this situation.
2006-12-03 05:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by NIGHT_WATCH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like you aren't old enough to get into something so serious?
If you are having to ask total strangers if it's OK then you should know that maybe it's not.
Wait a couple of more years or more and whoever this boy is if he stops hanging around you for not wanting to sleep with him then you know that you made the right choice.
2006-12-03 05:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by Carol N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your friends those who are really striving to ‘keep God’s orders’? A young woman named Joanna makes this observation regarding choice of friends: “If you are around people who love God, you find that, as you talk about morals, you start to feel the same way they do. For instance, if you hear them say that immorality is disgusting, you begin to feel likewise. On the other hand, if you’re with someone that doesn’t care, pretty soon you’ll become just like him.”—Proverbs 13:20.
2006-12-03 05:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by papavero 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi, That is a great question, they don't teach you about abstinance (not having sex with boys)
I did not have sex until I was married, I believe this is the best thing you can do for yourself and prospective husband.
The Bible also speaks against sexual immorality, sex is so much better in marriage, you will understand it better to, if you go to pre-marital counselling and do your research.
Remember a great lover is someone who can satisfy one partner for life...
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
2006-12-03 05:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Abbasangel 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
As soon as I figure out how to violate someone I don't know and never met over the internet, I'm going to do so to you just because you asked me not to and said please.
2006-12-03 05:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it's ok to sleep with boys, but you sound really young (or really immature) so I would suggest you wait a few more years before you start having any fun.
Once you are mature enough to handle it by all means, enjoy yourself.
2006-12-03 05:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Reject187 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Huh? Are you legal? Is he legal? Protection protection protection. (which I doubt you want a child). Its your body, if you see it as alright, then alright, if not, then don't.
My advise, dont unless your alittle wiser (no offence)
2006-12-03 05:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Illegals Are S*** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not sleep with a man unless you are married to him. Anything else is a violation of God's word.
Trust me, it's better if you wait.
2006-12-03 05:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Chaste makes waste.
2006-12-03 09:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋