K so I have this 8 year old daugter and she is like ttl out of control! She has been on a tantrum now for more than 2 months STRAIT. Every morning i come in her room and see that she has pooped and peed her bed and when I whale on her she throws the poop at the walls and rubs in on my face. she has cut up all my firnuture with her knife and when i ask her if I can have her knife she yells no and tries to cut me!! she steals from every store in town and nobody will play with her because she stinks (I dont belive in baths) and because she cuts the other kids up pretty bad with her knife. She refuses to eat anything but m and ms and she always makes me take out the yellow and the brown ones before I give them to her. I once tried to give her something healthy (a mcfeast) and she threw it out the window. She scribbles all over the walls with her crayons (she too dumb to know how to write real words) and screams and makes herself puke for no reason. She is homeschooled. What should I do?
2006-12-02 21:13:00 · 29 answers · asked by gee_whillickers 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Call upon Jesus.
2006-12-02 21:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by chilling_1ce 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
+2
2006-12-04 02:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow,.. Is it you do not believe in Baths+Showers or just Baths?
If just Baths, then let her take one as a reward then have her take a shower within 24 hours afterwards (some countries you have a bath and then a shower,.. but the same day).
Introduce her to M&M Kudo and M&M McFlurry and M&M other Ice Cream stuff. (Ice Cream would be a Nutreainal improvement).
What kind of Knife does she have?
Your not doing well at Home Schooling if she can't write any words,.. you should have her go through Normal School one to three years so that she learns it sucks but doesn't feel like she missed out on anything.
The Urinateing and Feces might indicate a Health Issue,.. remember 25% of people have Worms,.. and that's just how many have been diagnoised probably. There are many types of Parasites,.. children and animals seem to be better at knowing something is wrong.
Have her tested for Intelligence and Mental/Learning Disablities (you may get some funding for home school out of it). But do not have her medicated for any Mental/Learning problems (those just wind up damageing and destroying organs, glands and parts of your brain).
Get that Knife while she sleeps with atleast half a dozen people around.
Send your knives to a friends or family member and switch over to buying Plastic Knives. Some are very strong and can be washed in the Dishwasher (plastic however can some times not be washed welll enough and carry bacteria but it sounds like a cold would be less dangerous then what your going through).
Get the walls painted in one of the Paints where you can clean crayon and marker off the walls,.. well,... basically anything can be cleaned off the walls then.
Now how is she supposed to make friends if those brats are locked up and living on the band wagon all day? You need to find groups of other homeschooled kids.
2006-12-03 12:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say this, but you really need to see a counselor about this. Why does your daughter have a knife in the first place? Does she sleep? Take it when she's sleep. She needs a spanking and a bath, whether you believe in it or not. Little 8 year old kids shouldn't stink. They should have friends and best friends, home schooled or not. The counselor will teach you how to have control over your daughter and he/she will teach your daughter to have self control over herself. Then we'll talk about that bath...
2006-12-06 22:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dad - I only threw out the mcfeast because I'd asked for Pizza hut!
Again with the serious answers, and thankfully some not so serious! I would say that if she's in the bedroom and the son's on the couch, you'll have to spend time walking between them and trying to make some sense out of their screams & square eyes.
2006-12-03 05:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by psionyxau 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely this is a total bullshit story BUT, at any rate IF it is true here is some advice.
Moron...Why does your eight year old CHILD have a knife? What needs to be done to solve this is call CPS and have them place her with a REAL parent. One that believes in baths.
2006-12-03 21:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh-oh! I think you have a serious kid problem here. You need to talk to a doctor and fast. It could be an anger disorder or worse, which sometimes leads to a SERIOUS crime later on. She needs the knife away from her and some girls perfume. The knife gives her a chance to express her aggression in a way that could possible kill somebody! Why the HECK does she even HAVE a knife?!
2006-12-03 11:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by cjm 3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok, so she is homeschooled - THAT is the 1st problem. how do you think kids learn social skills when they are kept away from other kids their own age? you are f*cking up with that.
2nd - does she buy the m and m's - NO, so dont givethem to her. soon enough shell be begging for food, and then you give her cereal and fruit and meat and veges - not hard. if shes throws it away, tell her OK, thats al you get for today, so starve.
shell get the point.
3rd - you are the devil for not bathing her, that is unhgenic and will lead to disease.
4th - children are not too dumb to read and write, they havent been taught, oh that could be because she is home schooled???????????????????????????????????
5th - you gave her a knife. WTF. take it from her when sleeps duh
6th - since when is a mcfeast healthy.
pity the fool
2006-12-03 09:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spank her, then make her clean her own ****. This is lack of discipline on your part. Now tough love is the only way to go. If you are not able to do this then you may want to seek a therapist for you and your daughter. It will get worse before it gets better. Just remember to be firm! Say what you mean and mean what you say! good luck and blessings: rebuke the demon and not the child in Jesus name.
2006-12-03 05:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your daughter really need some counseling and help.. Im not saying that to be mean.. But Im serious.. For her to be 8 years old and acting like this something is going on that is truly bothering her and she needs to seek counseling and maybe she will open up to them!!! Not beleiving in baths is definatly a NO NO... How else do you expect to get clean???? No one wanting to play with her because of that has probably got something to do with the way she is acting... PLEASE SEEK HELP
2006-12-03 05:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by giggels22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I dont believe this crazy story but if by some miralce it is true you should both get help. Just the fact that you dont believe in baths is enough to hvae your child taken away from you. That is not very healthy
2006-12-03 10:31:54 · answer #11 · answered by Lori R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋