K so anyway I kinda forgot to talk 2 my son when he wuz yunger becoz it was easier to put him in front of TV and watch cartoons lol but when he wuz about 5 years old i started telling him words like hi bye and stuff. But I have real bad patince lol and if he don't get it right away i quit and get mad. Now hes 9 and he STILL can't say much only "i want food" and "TV fun". when the hell will he learn?? i cant be expectid to keep trying to teach the kid to talk all my life lol.
he is home schooled.
2006-12-02 21:06:59 · 18 answers · asked by gee_whillickers 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
have you ever thought that maybe he might have a hearing problem? i,d have his hearing checked first off! then YES you do and will be expected to teach him how to talk even if It takes your whole life! boohoo stop complaining and turn off the boob tube&get busy! and then maybe it wont take your whole life ,concidering you,ve negelcted him for 9 years already! But than again like father,like son, he must just be a chip off the old block head! have a merry christmas !
2006-12-02 21:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wot do u mean u forgot 2 talk 2 him n stuck him in front of the TV?
If you was going 2 do that why did you have him in the first place was it for the money?
OK lets get this straight, your son was not talked 2 and he don't mix with children at school as he's taught at home?
Well first thing i think you should do is get him in2 a school 2 mix with children.
At home you will have 2 sit and talk 2 him all the time he wont learn on his own,even tho i cant understand how he hasn't learnt more from watching so much TV
Ask the school and your Dr about class's n places you can take him to help him.
If you really cant be bothered to help your son i think you should put him in care at least then he will have a proper family to love and care for him and not just be neglected as you have done to him.
ADDITIONAL NOTE
OK i hold my hand's up i fell 4 it lol but now after reading your other questions i know your winding us up lol.
2006-12-03 05:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, children learn things at home first right? And as a parent and a role model, you should do everything for your child's sake. Try to be serious for once and make time for your son. Parents do sacrifice lots of things for their children; that's what they do so that their children will grow up as a good person and could also be a good parent when it's his turn to have his own family. No matter how hard it is to be a parent, there are still soo many things to do and have fun with your kid. Go out and bond with each other. Go to malls, to parks; eat out... You don't have to be the perfect mom but at least make him feel that he's part of the world and he has parents.. or a mom like you who loves him. With that kind of treatment you give him, it isn't possible for him to develop hatred towards you; and do the same things that you do to his future children. Children are smarter as you think. Especially that he's home schooled and is less exposed to other children.. or to the outside world, the only place he could depend on was his home and from the people inside it. If he's becoming too addictive to t.v. like you mentioned, I think he finds happiness through it--the happiness you couldn't provide. Why is it so hard to make time for someone who's more valuable than anything in your life? You don't have to feel obligated and tied down to the responsibilities. Stop acting like a teenager and be like a mom.... kinda harsh... lol. Well, good luck with you son! Hope things will be better between you two!
2006-12-03 05:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like telling stories or something? Even though it is a fake story im going to answer it anyway. First of all, babies learn how to talk when you are speaking. You exactly don't have to be sit down and teach him how to talk. Didn't the cartoons on the tv talked? He can learn from there also. Now go away and quit making up these silly stories.
2006-12-04 11:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please be patient and be more understanding with your son. You should have taught him how to speak as soon as he can understand words that is before 1 year old. Since he already 9 years old and cann't say much I think your son is a slow learner . You can send him to a special school for gifted kids. He will study with kids with different ages who has the same mental capabilities just like him. He will be guided properly by special teachers for special kids like him.
2006-12-03 10:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get that kid away from the tv...better yet get rid of every tv in the house and throw him in w/ a tutor and a public/private school situation now before he needs a shrink and people start calling him dislexic or adhd or aloof and want to pump him w/ meds...this is going to hit your kid like a freight train in life if you dont change it now...work w/ him using flash cards and computer learning toys too..
2006-12-03 05:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an idiot. Get a life you loser.
And if you REALLY have a son, maybe you should quit thinking about yourself and help him. With a arent like you he's gonna need it.
2006-12-03 11:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Yeah. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then your a bad parent, i have some things that i am not proud of, however, i have made up for it in giving as much love and praise as i can to my children, none can compare with the neglect shown here shame on you
2006-12-03 05:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Trudy Joy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
See my answer about the devil talker. Your stories lack imagination, therefore intelligence.
2006-12-04 01:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really don't know how to take care of your kids do you? your fault for not teaching him earlier in life
2006-12-03 12:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋