I've been with my boyfriend 4 2 years, but 2nite I saw my ex. aka my 1st love and I kissed him . I just dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 20:56:19 · 11 answers · asked by Ren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you probably won't ever get over your first love..
2006-12-02 21:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by ***Tracy *** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweet thing, it has happened to us all. The first love never leaves your mind, even when your my age! and I am not going to tell you. But I am old enough to tell you that this is normal. And especially if this first boyfriend and you were intimate. Don't kiss him again, you could end up loosing the boyfriend you have now, and 2-years is a long time to wash down the drain. Put this "love" in the right place and move on!Merry Christmas...Remember - it that time of year when emotions run high.
2006-12-02 21:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always that part of you that holds on to them. Onvce you put that wall down or i guess your barrier to you heart and give it all to them its hard to take it back. Expecially when you see the person you love with someone else. But just have to stay strong and know theres better for you out there. And glawking and waiting for your first love to come back will make it worse. It will take time, Just dont miss the oppertunity to meet someone new when the time is right.
2006-12-02 21:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are not like something you can split apart in a single motion. they are like woven rugs. you have to unravel each and every strand of the life you wove together. the general rule is it takes 2 months for every year you are together to get over it. it varies from person to person, but i don't believe you can ever completely unravel the rug.
i think it is your duty to tell your boyfriend. if he hears it from you first it will show him that you are sorry and you are ready to work past it. unless you were wanting to break up with him.
2006-12-02 21:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by alex l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone still hold something for there first love. not saying its love either just saying there's something there cause they were your first love.
But by actually cheating on your b'f with the first love thats wrong...its your b'f giving your eniugh love that you had to do that.
There has to be something wrong in your relationship to that or your just a hooker.
Don't put you now b'f thru this you have done wrong!
2006-12-02 21:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart but don't hurt one that is true to you and want to go back to him (one ur with now) another words you might just want or miss that old feeling and you might go for it but if you do you have to remember the man your with most likely wont take you back if you leave him for another man so think which do u care for most and what relationship will go some where and i hope you told your man u kissed some one else you don't want to hold that on your shoulders
2006-12-02 21:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by tracemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a kiss isnt that bad
b glad u werent drunk and went further
2006-12-02 21:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by funny.bones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try praying and ask for signs from the lord
2006-12-02 21:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by albert m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's NO WAY to forget our first love
but,u kissed him???whoa,don't know what to say
2006-12-02 21:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by j's d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-12-02 23:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋