This girl at work kind of patted my head or rubbed my hair does she like me???
i kind of like this girl at work and she thinks i am hilarious and tonight told me she liked my funny faces and that i was funny. i am drunk by the way... hahhhaha.... umm yeah soo she patted my head and played with my hair kind of..... she is cute kindof but i know she has had sex with my friend at work and she has a boyfriend now. what is my next move??????? i like her and i kind of want to hang out with her outside of work but that might be awkward. i am a virgin and a christian and i am very nervous about dating a girl who has been around the block a few times... ya dig???? anyways just let me know what you think. thanks guys!
2006-12-02 20:55:11 · 12 answers · asked by xcrusader12x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope she just thinks your a good little puppy... Now go pee in the yard....
2006-12-02 20:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, well when I like a guy, I do reach out and touch him in some way, usually his arm. Maybe she just loves your hair, but I'd say she's flirting with you. I married this year...he's 22, I'm 34, and he was a virgin...literally-he had never even been kissed! I'll tell you, just like I told him, I'm sure you'll be a natural at it lol...No worries there, just enjoy it!
I think you should just start making excuses to be around her outside of work, and see how it goes. Or, you can be brave and ask her out on a date-dinner/movie. If you never ask, the answer is already no!
If you do that, just make every effort to keep bumping into her, or something that gets you closer. She's probably already comfortable around you if she's touching your hair lol...you have nothing to be afraid of....go for it!
2006-12-03 05:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a christian my self, I really don*t think that messing around with a girl thats been around the block and back again is the best thang to be doing!!!! But the way that i*ve been brought up is that if n e of ur family members have been through the same thing that u may or may not go through and u have seen the hurtfullness that they may or maynot have went through then y do that to ur self? u know what i mean?? but u know if ur friend has already had intoment relations relations with this person then i personially do think that its best to find other green pastures and dont let a peice of butt get in ur way of acheviving ur goals in life!!!!!!!!
2006-12-03 05:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by nillie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me this sounds like she is more of friends with you, and making you feel comfortable at work. I act friendly to people at work to make them comfortable and like coming in, and there are times people take it as me flirting. From what you discribed, that's a pat on the head and a hair tassle...not running her finger though your hair. About her saying you are funny and make funny faces, that could just be being nice, or it could be a way of saying I like you. This just depends on the person.
Just because you are a virgin and a Christian doesn't mean that you can't like someone who isn't a virgin. If she knows you and respects you, then she won't care about your status verses hers. Most of all, she wouldn't push anything on you. But I don't personally know her, so I can't say what she will or won't do. Also as you mentioned she does have a boyfriend. Most guys I knwo don't want to be the reason people break up. But don't let that discourage your friendship with her!!
Haning outside of work with co-workers is one of my favorite things. I honestly think it makes us work better together because we become closer friends this way. The closing crew at my job knows each other so well that we can get pissed at each other and then get over it in minutes. It's rediculously cool. Don't feel awkward about it, just start off with a group from work, and work your way down.
My last pice of advice, don't date people from work. I've seen too many people quit their jobs because they dated someone they worked with and when things went sour, they didn't want to be there anymore. I don't just mean grils, but guys too. Plus working together makes a relationship hard, and a relationship makes working together hard.
2006-12-03 05:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by djkristyleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your next move is to sober up before you do something you might regret.
After that, try and decide if this is harmless flirting or if she is really interested in ending her relationship with her boyfriend for you....
And don't be nervous about dating someone more experienced, she could show you a thing or two! :)
good luck
2006-12-03 05:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by el nombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away from the.... girl.. man she has got a boyfriend and if she is touching you that a sign she probably does fansy you. but a girl like that is no good. if you end up with her ask yourself this.... will you ever trust her. if she can touch you and she has a boyfriend she not nervous about doing other thing... but thats only what i think just be careful.
2006-12-03 05:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Brookeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex with her then do so and if you want her as a friend then do that. Just take things as they are an go with how the wind blows.
2006-12-03 05:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better hope she didnt just want to clean her hands of something and used your hair : )
Be careful of chicks with boyfriends, its dangerous waters, plenty of single chicks out here
2006-12-03 04:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah.. I know women's styles... this girl could like you but it depends...If you like her, be sure to know her inside-out. You need to know her before you start a relationship. If you already know her, try to make friends. But don't butt in with her relationship with her boyfriend...coz if you do, you would be in big trouble...
2006-12-03 05:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get nervous, just ask her out for a cup of coffee one of these days, but as friends
2006-12-03 05:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by яσуαℓfℓυѕнѕρα∂є 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋