Every-Time we Go In Hotel , the day i got the vallet, fom next day i am feeling sick ,2 days off from Job, i think , they have tried to give me the vallet just to show, they want to spend someting on me,
They Never Understood , i was spending, just because i had the money , it was not a show-off or impress them with my money,
I am feeling so Insulted , That i gave it back to them, and still i am unableto come-out of it, its 3 weeks past ,
what to do ?
2006-12-02 20:37:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
hmm how about passing some dollars over my way
2006-12-02 20:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a deep look into yourself. You will see that it is you who is actually, very very inside of you, who knows that you have been spending some money, large amount or less amount, I wouldnt know, but you have been spending money over them. And I am sure that it is because you had money to spend, but still, you are subconciously aware, that you have spent anyway. That is making you concious that perhaps your female freinds have given you a wallet just to show. But I feel it is not that. It is simply one of the presents given to male freinds, wallets, ties, keychains, pens.....anything. You do not have to feel and make a big issue of it in your mind. And you have to be yourself, normal, like your every-day-self. The more you think, and mess about for simple things in life, the more it shows that even if they were thinking of you that way, that they are right. So, are they right ? They are not right, and you were spending cos' you had money, yes ? So just chill yourself, and you should be calm and cool. Its really not a big deal. They may have also been genuinely giving you that as gift, and not really to point out something to you.
So what to do ? Ever thought of what you'll give them when its your turn to give gifts ? I was thinking, since they are your female freinds, and if you gave them an expensive perfume, cologne, or whatever, would they think that you were insulting them cos' they stink to high heavens ???
C'mon, its just a gift. dont break your head so much..
2006-12-03 05:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a generally easy yet nice present to give to someone, even if you only have $1 in your pocket. Maybe they thought you needed a new wallet, or somewhere to keep your ID, cards, and money. You shouldn't be offended unless they gave you reason, by saying such.
2006-12-03 07:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by enticingmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the leather wallet given to you your female friends is a gift to you in putting your money earnings so that you something else to place your money and not solely on your pocket whioch subject for lost
2006-12-03 04:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are mean for returning it, it was a gift and it makes you seem ungrateful to not want it. Not all gifts have hidden meaning in them, and i dont think you feeling sick has anything to do with the gift.
2006-12-03 04:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Esme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm just wondering what a VALLET is?
2006-12-03 05:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !
How do you expect others to know the answer for this ?
It is for you to decide and judge about your friends...right ??
best wishes ...and relaaaax..
2006-12-03 04:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by suresh k 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋