2006-12-02 20:27:08 · 17 answers · asked by hayhr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave them, the relationship is over at that point and I deserve more respect then that...
2006-12-02 20:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheated you in what way? Cheated with another person? or cheated you out of money? If with another person, fight for your love--don't just hand them over because you feel hurt. Personally, I made the 'other woman' into a friend. After that , she wouldn't have anything to do with my man. Do the unexpected. But first decide if the person you love is worthy of your love? could it be that you have misjudged them? It does take 2 to tango , so they say. Have a heart to heart with your love, tell them how you feel, and try to determine what is best for you both now. Your relationship has been irrevocably changed, like it or not, things will never be exactly the same as before.OR you could just pretend like you know nothing about it.This method usually ends up biting you in the butt later. What feels right to you? Go with your gut feeling..it will probably be the right choice. Good luck. Life is tough. no one said it is fair ..if life was fair bras wouldn't come in different sizes.
2006-12-02 20:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i found out that the person i love most cheated on me.........i would talk to the person about it. if they dont want to be with me then i cant change that.but if the person is truely sry and wants to be with me then id give them a second chance.everyone deserves a second chance. yes it would be hard to get things back to the way they were and theres a chance they might never be the same. you just gotta do what you feel i right. yes it will be extremely hard to forgive that person. its like the sayin i can forgive but i can never forget. good luck
2006-12-02 20:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never speak to that person again beyond what would be necessary to get him out of my life. If I were married with children, I might see things differently and give a second chance to a truly repentant husband who initially came to me and confessed all and vowed to change. There would never be a third chance.
If you forgive someone for cheating, they get the message that cheating is something forgiveable. This causes more and more trouble for you and all of that person's future partners.
2006-12-02 20:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheated on me? Or cheated me like in stole money?
Go to therapy if he cheated me. Leave him, take the kids, and get a big fat alimony settlement if he cheated on me. Enjoy life and move on. The person I love the most is ME!
2006-12-02 20:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by avalonlee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If I am in a long term committed relationship I would try to work things out, if they wanted to. The problem is, many times if they cheat, they leave.
2006-12-02 20:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same damn thing I'd do if the girl I was dating for a week cheated on me.
Walk away, go to a bar; find another hot chick and get laid.
PEACE FOOL
2006-12-02 20:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought my Girlfriend was... was almost positive of it! I asked her about it, and he turned out to just be a friend. She told me if it bothered me that much, she'd stop hanging out around him... But if it turned out that she was, I would get p/oed! I'd dump her and spread the word that she did, as well as share all of her secrets =P. Jk, I'm not that mean! I would break up with her though.
2006-12-02 20:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if that person cares about you and is telling you it was a mistake and they want to work things out i say give them one chance.my man cheated on me and i forgave him and weve been together for along time now happy and we have a baby so it can work out if you both want it to
2006-12-02 20:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by tracemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how they cheated me. We talkin cash? Did they run a scam? Did they steal my credit cards?
2006-12-02 20:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship would be over because I would never be able to get over the betrayal, nor would I ever be able to trust him again.
2006-12-02 20:44:35 · answer #11 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋