I am in a 3 year relationship and my boyfriend and i both have myspaces. I decided to join because I wanted to make contact with old friends, my boyfriend says he was doing the same thing but I was curious and looked at his "friends". I looked at their pics and comments and found my boyfriend posting comments such as...." I wish you were looking at my like that.", "You're eyes are piercing right through me." Yeah, I have to admit that this girl was hot, but is this really necessary? Needless to say I did find others, but what should I think of all this? I decided to confront him about it and he said it was all just joking....yeah right. Well I decided to drop it. I honestly don't think he's cheating, but I don't think it's right. He has pictures of me all over his page but I still don't think it's right that he did that. I know I should not have been snooping, but something in me told me to check, and I was right. What do you guys think?
2006-12-02 20:21:16 · 27 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to get a new boyfriend sweetie.
2006-12-02 20:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he is wrong too. Any sort of comment that shows interest is not good. But remember flirting is healthy even in committed relationships. Being on a diet doesn't mean not looking at the menu. If I were you I would turn the tables, and draw his attention to it for another reason, then say well I was just joking. He'll get the picture.
2006-12-03 04:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by sonkysst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reaction to it may be more threatening to your relationship than the incident. Guys will never miss an opportunity to flirt. Under any circumstances. When your guy seems to not have any interest in girls, then you should worry. So long as you don't see very telling signs that he is having an affair, leave it alone.
You may get more lovin' from him getting turned on online.
2006-12-03 04:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you what I would do if some guy I was involved with did that...I would kick his *ss to the curb and I am not kidding.
I think that kind of thing even when people choose to call it "harmless" flirting is just plain disrespectful and it is NOT harmless.
He really should need no other reason to STOP doing that kind of thing..it bothering you should be ALL the reason he needs.
Put your foot down and if your feelings do not matter to him enough to stop it then use that foot to boot him right the h*ll out of your life.
Good Luck :)
2006-12-03 04:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hate myspace--- I had a bf too... well now an ex, but that was one thing i used to hate... plus all these guys living him comments and I was like wtf? I would just drop it... don't log back in--- it is a good site to keep in touch with friends, but there's always gonna be that craving to check what messages he has or he has left for other people. I also hated that my ex-bf had like 100 friends LOL... I only had like 20. It's evil... drop it girl. G'luck. Peace.
2006-12-03 04:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by erotikos_stratiotis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably is mostly all in fun, but if it makes you uncomfortable, he should knock it off. Talk to him and make it perfectly clear that it irritates you if you haven't made that clear already. If he doesn't stop, watch out because even though this isn't all that big of a problem now, that behaviour could spread to other areas of your relationship and get out of hand.
2006-12-03 04:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it aint right....and I cnt believe ur tolerating it..... Even tho he has pics of you on his space, he shouldnt be goin ga ga over some hot girl on myspace....c'mon! Give it some serious thought, if he can do dat, what else cant he do.....just be cautious and tell him off! Let him knw what you really think and tell him to stop it! He needs to respect you as his gf!!! Good Luck hun!
2006-12-03 04:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he could just be flirting. i know that its hard to take (especially for us girls lol) but there will always be beautiful women in this world and they will take notice. just take it in stride and keep an eye out to make sure it doesnt get out of control. if he has pictures of you all over his page, then i wouldnt worry about it!
2006-12-04 03:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by remery20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must stop that!!!
so what if others are much more sexier, hotter, more pretty than u do. that doesnt give the reason why he should do all those
if looks is his requirements for a girl. then why in the first place choose u when there are much more better looking girls than u(sorry to say this.no hard feelings)
for me i dont go for looks
2006-12-03 04:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should ask your boy friend how he would feel if you where sending messages to hot guys on there.... that will give him the hint to stop and think about what he's doing..
2006-12-03 04:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋