My girlfriend used to call me "my love" then after a while she started calling me "my pet" then it became "my slave" now she calls me her b!tch. She even introduces me to her girlfriends as her "b!tch". I over heard them discussing how short a leash she should use on the collar she got for me. I really love her but I think she is starting to enjoy BDSM too much
2006-12-02 20:06:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She started changing my name as soon as she knew I had fallen really hard in love for her
2006-12-02 20:07:14 · update #1
If she's got good stuff, don't worry about it. You don't care about her friends opinions of you, do you?
2006-12-02 20:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mat, my friend... You need talk to her and set some boundaries. If she was calling her ***** as a private joke it would be one thing, but introducing you as a ***** just doesnt sound good. Sounds like she doesnt have any respect for you. Ask her to not do that anymore. Tell her it bothers you. I mean, I would have a talk with her and try to make this work because I loved her. If I only liked a girl and heard her talking about the size of the collar she got me, she would be history. A partner in a relationship should make you better, encourage, and support you. Never put you down.
2006-12-02 20:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not a contracted or collared submissive to Her, i would say that you have no reason to accept that. Even if you are the submissive in the relationship She needs to have respect for the fact that without you there is no D/s relationship. If you dont like it and She wont stop, end it. Or make the relationship formal, draw up a contract and make that a hard limit...
2006-12-06 06:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, it sounds like she was actually planning on making you into a plaything from the start. Although, many women do hunt men like prey, waiting for them to become docile enough that they can be captured and tamed.
The question is, do you like it?
If not, then it's either time to set things straight, or get a new girlfriend. If so, then simply enjoy it, but make sure she doesn't refer to you like that in front of your friends of parents, you don't want to have to explain that.
2006-12-04 14:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by thenetnomad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I dont like where this is going. I think it is about time maybe you should break up with her. I know that isnt something you want to do because you love her dearly but from the sound of things she isnt respecting you and your being. Calling you her ***** that doesnt sound like she loves you it sounds like she is just using you. Do you want to be with someone who disrespects you? Everytime she calls you her ***** and introducing people to them as her ***** that is disrespecting you
2006-12-02 20:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a b•tch! Get control! Get the power back or at least equal. It sounds like she is having too much fun with it.
2006-12-02 20:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with that s..t. she wouldn't, just cause your a man doesn't mean you cant have a bit of respect in your relationship. Tell her how it makes you feel and if she doesnt listen let her know who the real b!tch is, I know you might love her man but your setting yourself up for heartbreak, nip it in the bud
2006-12-02 20:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will change girlfriends ASAP. If she shows such disrespect towards you now, you can expect more of the same. You are better off with her.
2006-12-02 20:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lulu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've known several guys like you- the only unusual thing I see here is that your girlfriend is more honest and straightforward about it than theirs.
...B!tch.
2006-12-02 20:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, All I can say is that she doesn't respect you for who you are, but instead thinks she deserves to call you by whatever name she finds suitable.
2006-12-02 20:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Odio a los Estados Unidos! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont either. She seems to think she controls you. You need to set her straight if she thinks that. Or she might think that you like it or that it's cute for some odd reason.
2006-12-02 20:08:53 · answer #11 · answered by addict for dramatic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋