I DATED THIS GIRL WHEN I WAS 17 AND WE REALLY LIKED EACH OTHER I KNOW SHE FELL DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH ME. WE DID EVERYTHING AND DATED FOR ABOUT 10 MONTHS EVEN THOUGH I WENT TROUGH A PRETTY BAD ACCIDENT SHE NEVER LEFT ME AND KEPT MY CONFIDENCE UP. BUT WE DID FIGHT ALOT AND I KINDA TOOK HER FOR GRANTED AND ONE DAY I BROKE UP WITH HER AND BROKE HER HEART AND DATED A GIRL 2 MONTHS LATER. I TOOK HER A WHILE TO GET OVER ME AND WE JUST STOPED TALKING. SO NOW THAT IM 19 I RECENTLY SAW HER AND SHE LOOKED JUST SO GORGEOUS AND I COULD SEE THAT SHE STILL LIKED ME IN HER EYES BUT SHE HAS BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR LIKE A YEAR AND 1/2 AND EVEN LIVED WITH HIM FOR A LITTLE BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN SHE CALLS ME ALMOST TWO YEARS LATER AND WANTS TO HANG OUT. SO WE DID AND I FELL BACK IN LOVE WITH HER BUT SHE KEEPS TELLING ME SHE LOVES HER BF AND LOVES ME AS A FRIEND AND RECENTLY I JUST COULDENT RESIST HER ANYMORE AND TOLD HER HOW I FELT AND I KINDA THINK THAT PUSHED HER AWAY AND HASENT CALLED.DoISTILLHAVEACHANCE?
2006-12-02 20:02:51 · 7 answers · asked by hustler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I, myself, have a very firm "no turn back" policy if you dated a girl once and it didnt work out. If it didnt work out before, its not going to work out now. Just because she had that twinkle in her eye that a girl will have in her eye for a crap load of other reasons, shows she may not want you back. Always be on the look out for the BBD (Bigger Better Deal) when it comes to the ladies, redating is a waste of time because it erases the premilinaries which can be the best part of dating because those are the only times EVER where you wont want to fight because you just started going out. If this is about sex, dont do it really. Sex gets guys all messed up, esp when they havent had it in a long time. have you dated anyone in that time since youve broken up? Doubt it. Because if you were with lots of chicks, your chick that you didnt like fighting with and you mistreated would be the last thing on your mind. Dont turn back, I know its tought but chin up and look for a new girl, one you can live with for a LONG time, thats a defition of relationship
2006-12-03 04:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fatman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......I think she's gotten over you...(after 2 years) And since she already has a boyfriend and she's even lived with him, then you better not try and ruin their relationship...And it seems to me that you fell in love with her again cuz she looked "Gorgeous" (like u sed) but honestly, if you loved her so much, you wouldn't have let go of her.. Love is much deeper than this my friend.....and I think she just wants to be your friend..... After 2 years, you should move on with your life and let her do that too....but if she actually gives you a call and says that she's willing to break up with her current bf to be with you, then ur one lucky guy!!!
Next time you get a good gf, try not to take her for granted and dont ever let her go....cuz good girls (or guys for that matter) are hard to find! Good Luck!
2006-12-02 20:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to tell you but i don't think you have a chance. i mean you won't have a chance if you don't persuade her. but i don't think you should try to make her fall in love with you because you were the one who broke up with her. if you do care about her you would leave her with her boyfriend because this is someone who didn't break her heart.
maybe you should give her some time, like a week, and if you don't hear from her, call her up and see how she feels. ask her if you have made her feel uncomfortable because that is the last thing you want to do... etc.
good luck
2006-12-02 20:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea I think you do, but since you broke her heart you will have a lot of making up to do before she can completely trust you again. But since she has a boyfriend all you can be to her for right now is a friend. Call her to say what's up, chill with her. But be her friend, she will have to make the decision to get back with you on her own. You just have to sit tight and wait patiently. Good luck with that, God Bless.
2006-12-02 20:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by DepthsOfMyEyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only reason she called you in the first place is unfinished business.She needed to no if it was over for her. You helped her with that by telling her how you felt toward her. One thing about us women when it's over it's over.When the love is gone it's gone for good never to return no matter how hard we try to get it back.
2006-12-02 20:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to radar readings and statistical evidence, the insulin in her micromolecular chromosones leave u wit < -50% chance of wining her back
2006-12-02 20:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only like her because she is forbidden fruit .Leave her alone haven't you done enough.
2006-12-02 20:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by puddin' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋