what sins do you forgive?

Question

in a romantic relationship what do you consider unforgivable? and what do you consider forgivable or minor?

Answer 1

I guess cheating.
I mean I still pray for them but there isn't really forgivable and unforgivable in my life.

Answer 2

To err is human,
to forgive divine.
Neither is Marine Corps policy.

However, I'm guessing you aren't a marine, so we can move beyond the saying. The unforgivable sins in a romantic relationship are those acts that walk all over your human dignity. The actual definition of those acts varies from person to person, and you should be honest about what your limits are. If you aren't sure what healthy boundaries are for you, you really need to think about that.

The minor sins are those acts of daily self-indulgence that we occasionally need to do just to deal with the fact that we're involved so intimately with another person. Very often in relationships, the other person will violate your space, invade your privacy, and feel entitled to do so. What makes this bearable is the ability to tell a person to back off, or to eat the rest of the ice cream thoughtlessly, or to forget to make dinner, or to not return every little phone call. Forgive those things. We all need to feel like we have our own space, that we are our own person, and a lot of the time, we do stupid things to convince ourselves that this is so.

Take care,

Laz

Answer 3

when u r in a relationship and if u love him or her no sin is big enough. thats why people still carry on in abusive relationship..a sin is a sin is a sin ther's no minor or major. to err is human and u may choose to be a human if u see it as unforgivable and u may be a god if u forgive others for whatever mean things they do to you.

Answer 4

It is funny but I think in American culture, women will forgive anything if they need your financial support, now if they do not it then they forgive very little. I myself consider nothing unforgiveable as I have had just about every boundary broken and sort of realized it is not as bad as you think,.... so for me sex with another, is cool...if they need that then i must not be doing something right and accept that as my flaw, not theirs,,,,,

Answer 5

I'm struggling to forgive my cheating husband and his highly paid mistress. The hard part is that he started the affair when I was on the verge of being admitted to a Hospice & very close to dying. Counting on my death he went out to lunch, show very little interest in my miracolous healing.
Most likely after receiving a fair & adequite settlement I'll forget to forive & forgive to forget.

Answer 6

We must strive to forgive anyone who sins against us and leave God to judge the actions.
This does not mean that we are compelled to remain in any abusive, unfaithful or demeaning situation. Forgiveness is not for the other person but is for us so that we do not become bitter and resentful which are deadly to our spirit, personality and body.

Answer 7

Nice Eyes

Answer 8

As a Christian I have to forgive all offenses done unto me.. I can't forgive sin, only God can... The bible says forgive and it shall be forgiven of you.. Peace be with you all your days...

Answer 9

Honestly, if you label it as a sin already, it'll be pretty tough to forgive unless you consider yourself a deity.

Answer 10

beating
cheating
not supporting the family (financially)

i wouldn't want those to happen to my sister. i would never forgive a man that lays a hand on my sister and i expect her to do the same even if this man is the father of her children.