Want the man i will be with to understand that i saved myself 4 the sake of love, affraid there is no hymen?

Question

I was upbrought in a traditional family, so it is logical i always had a dream to stay pure till the marriage. I find it to be very romantic and nice to shiver from nervousness in my husband's arms and so on. However, i was riding a horse in my childhood, i start my day with several miles on a gym bike and so on. So it is a great chance that all these physical activities have broken my hymen. It would a complete desaster for me, cause i want the man i will be with to understand that i saved myself in the sake of love, even though sometimes it is not an easy task to manage to control urself. So i never allow myself anything, but still there is a chance that because of this physical activities the man i will be with will not understand that i never had anything before. I wanna know in advance if the sacred thing is still there or not, but dont know how can i know this. thx. And i also would like to know the opinion of professionals if there r any online :)

Please help, cause i really need to know, and not getting much answers on this....

Answer 1

I don't see a problem. To never have had sex etc... so your V. remain in tact.

but yes, the modern woman is much more active then the earlier dainty gals who's hymen isn't dared to be challenged by not riding side-saddle etc... but this is modern times and men would understand such a thing... modern woman are more active and the body will adjust too that however does not mean a stretched hymen is any less V.

so calm down, your romeo will still be impressed by your convictions and well shaped body and won't be any less uncertain of your sainttady when the times comes and if he should challenge the fact... he isn't much of a gentlemen.

So ride your horse, ride the bike, climb hills, fly airplanes and do what ever.... he will understand and be greatfull for such an interesting person.

Answer 2

The hymen is not the sacred "virgin" guarantee. A gynecologist would be able to tell if it were still there. Also, i heard that if sex was done in a very gentle fashion, the hymen could survive. So don't sweat proving something to your man, it is more important to you than him anyways.

Answer 3

im not a professional anything but the only way to tell if the hyman is still there is to put your fingers inside and feel---even though the hyman may be broken because of something growing up --you are still a virgin(?) you will both know when you have sex with him the first time

Answer 4

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Answer 5

go to the gynecologist!