I am trying to figure this guy out he just nevr gives up no matter how mean I am to him..he says he could never be angry at me and will still check to see if I come on IM even after I told him I couild just be friends with him or that I never wanted to talk to him again...but he always forgives me. I know him we are friends..not close but why is he this way?
2006-12-02 19:40:34 · 5 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Without a lot of background on how you two met or how close you have been, it's hard to answer this question. But I could base it on an experience I had personally. I was in love with someone else, and another guy was in love with me. No matter what I said or did, his feelings did not change, nor did he stop trying to prove to me that he was the right choice. In the end, he realized that I was not for him--in that, I just continued to live my life and love the guy I wanted to be with. Eventually, the guy's feelings faded, or he met someone else--I don't know, I lost touch with him as I continued to go about my business. I wasn't cruel or mean, I just didn't let his feelings hinder how I wanted to feel or who I wanted to be with. If this guys is a true friend, he'll stay friends with you no matter who you're with or how far you move from him (physically or mentally). Distance does help, him more than you, of course. However, if this guy just wants to wear you down until you "love" him, then he'll eventually get the picture when he sees that not happening. If you don't want to talk to him, don't. If you don't want to see him anymore, don't. Mixed signals are just that to a guy--NOT a definitive "no". Telling him you don't want to talk to him, being mean to him, and THEN telling him you can only be his friend fuels his reasons to stay connected to you in his heart. If you mean "no", then act "no".
2006-12-02 19:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must like you a lot. Maybe he is in love with you. A lot of Chic's take kindness as a weakness.It's NOT a weakness. Maybe He might be a good guy for you. Think about the pro's and con's.
2006-12-03 03:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by 69charley69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he really digs you. I would say it's love. He is probably this way because he has liked you for quite some time and hasn't found anybody else to transfer his feelings to. Tell him no long enough and he'll find another girl to bug.
2006-12-03 03:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he is a true friend and obviously he wants to remain friends with you.
2006-12-03 03:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-03 03:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋