Theres this guy making sacrifices but im not really attracted to him. There is this other guy that every girl likes but i dont really like him. Or im just afraid that if he goes out with me he might cheat on me. there is this other guy that i have been attracted with for 3 years. I told him i liked him but he never says anything and im afraid to get broken hearted. What should i do?
2006-12-02 19:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by JuLianna H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, your right. No one wants a guy who makes ultimate sacrifices, and then obviously you are not really attracted to him. Every other girl likes the second guy you mentioned, and then yea, you feel insecure that he may cheat on you. The third guy whom you have been attracted to for 3 years, did not say anything to you. So apart from the fear of rejection, you must understand that he could be just playing with your feelings knowing that you are attracted to him. Why the hell wasnt he saying anything to you, for 3 long years. Tell him to take a walk. But I am sure there could be someone, someone right, with whom you could sit for hours together, breath comfortably being with him, may have loads in common, and most of all, love you a lot. You have to wait for the right thing to happen. Do not rush in because you feel its time to ask out someone, or go out with. The slower, the better. That way you dont rush into anything, you will have time to think, and also allow the other person to know you more.
2006-12-02 19:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I tell most people to do forget these guy's for a short while make a list of what you want in a guy then add trust loyalty faithfulness being able to comunicate well with each other and share in most things when your finished see if any of these guys match what you want if they dont keep looking there is someone perfect for you but we are not all perfect learn the difference and stick to my advise on the list you wrote down don't settle for less .
2006-12-03 03:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think of all the three before sleeping and whoever appears in ur dream is the man u go for .
2006-12-03 03:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-03 03:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the nice guy, forget the player
2006-12-03 03:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerMePlz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋