2006-12-02 19:33:11 · 12 answers · asked by ngo n 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
There is nothing wrong in telling that he is having the disease, so that if the patient wants to tell anything he will tell you, if he is in a position. Or he would like to see some one and will be happy. It is better to make him happy before end comes. even otherwise he will come to know the end is approching. I have seen patients in Coma Stage to open and show some signs before the end-
2006-12-02 19:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After watching my father spend two months in an Intensive Care Unit earlier this year, I had to internally debate this myself.
It's really tough - Normally if someone has a terminal illness they are aware of it themselves and it's their choice to share with others as they see fit.
If they aren't aware that the illness is terminal and you are, then the very different choice becomes yours and it's tough. I don't know who the person is in relation to you and what the illness is, however in my personal opinion you need to tell them.
The timing and exactly how you do it is something to consider, but it's their right to know that the illness is terminal. They need to know what's going to happen, what their options are if any, and they need to put into place some personal and financial decisions and plans.
They may be able to use the knowledge to enjoy their time with family and friends, and to do the things they can do if it is possible. They can talk to people and pass on things that are important to them - for my father, it gave him the chance to talk to us and tell us how much he loved us. We treaure the memory.
2006-12-03 03:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by psionyxau 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a debatable question. But I would you should tell as some members have discussed and answered to your question. If I was in this situation I would want to be told this...that my end is near or very near. The patient just has to be a bit mentally strong at that moment, maybe easier said than done.
2006-12-03 04:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by shankd67 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had to tell my mom 9 years ago. Telling my dad was the hardest. My mom and I planned her funeral and she told me what and how she wanted it to be. She never did want anything kept from her. It was almost like planning a trip for her. I was sad but it was also good to see what her wishes were. She died within a month and I am glad we talked about it. She was ready for death and ready to meet her Lord and Savior. My dad joined her in peace this past July, My parents had pre-planned and paid for their funerals the year my mom died, which I think is a great idea for everyone to do. It takes a lot of decision making away from the family. I miss them both but I know they are together in the Lords loving arms.
2006-12-03 04:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by marsha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me when someone knows they are dying ,there is no need for u to tell cause they already sense it . some ppl just dont want to know they are or if they know physcialy but mentally they arent ecepting it . and if its you that is term. ill . then telling everyone in your family is a great idea becusse u are gonna need all the help you can get , dont feel scared or bad for telling that u r ill . being around family when your sick is the best med. of them all and feeling loved and cared for !!!!
2006-12-06 10:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe they know when the end is near but the people around them refuse to discuss it with them.Don't talk like that,or you'll get better soon,stuff like that and the patient/family member cannot discuss his/her fears,dreams and wishes with those closest to them.Be honest and it will be a blessing for all concerned,regardless of age.
2006-12-03 03:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by racquel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even when not told...a terminally ill patient senses it. It's best that they know so the can settle any unfinished business, say things they wish to loved ones, and make peace with their God
2006-12-03 03:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my husband knew that he was dying and so did i he didn't want to tell me as he knew it would hurt & i didnt want to tell him as i wanted him to fight the cancer. when we both got told that he only had a couple of weeks left it was like a weight lifted from our shoulders we both told each other what we had been hiding we laughed and cried at the same time.
he faught so hard on the last day we retook our vows later he died in my arms.
2006-12-03 13:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by tracey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably already know it but I told my mom and great uncle so they would know I knew and could die in peace without having to worry about anybody but themselves. It really depends on the situation.
2006-12-03 09:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Doris D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that's my answer that gives the person a chance to do things that they never would have done or give them the time to do what they should have done
2006-12-03 03:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by nazwats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋