I'm 21 and date girls that are within about a 3 year age range and I DO NOT date minors. Of course, the large majority of people in my age range are having sex, but I seem to attract a disproportionately large number of girls that have never had sex, or at least don't admit to it. I first dated when I was like 13 and started having sex at 15, and this trend of attracting virgins has held since. My brother made a joke about this the other day, calling me "The deflowerer". I laughed, but I couldn't help but wonder why I derserved such a nickname. Is it because the girls with shyness and social anxiety issues like me? Is it because they see me as a guy who is gentle and unassuming, which I try to be? Is it because they see me as guy who could be easily manipulated with confessions of false innocence? Any thoughts?
2006-12-02 19:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most likely, you just seem non-threatening and easy to get along with. You might be underestimating the number of virgins who are out there and not attracted to you. I have found a large number of both male and female virgins and many others who are no longer virgins but have had very limited experience. It's easy to assume that everyone is having sex all the time but many people simply have other priorities.
2006-12-02 19:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're good looking or nice, who knows. Why don't you try dating older women? Maybe they could teach you a thing or two. (If you've only slept with virgins you probably suck in bed!)
2006-12-03 03:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't try to get a girl out of her clothes unless you marry her. By the way, you're a lucky dude
2006-12-03 03:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They trust and choose you will be gentle with them.
2006-12-03 04:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by miss tique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-03 03:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you get naked with them and have sex with them you dont know for sure if they are virgins or not---or do they have it written on their foreheads??
2006-12-03 03:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get it what seems to be the problem here. there are people starving out there.
2006-12-03 03:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by eLad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they just see a hot guy and some see a hot guy with a little more anabicern to him and some see a ugly guy with a big wallet and big dik just wat ppl see
2006-12-03 03:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋