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i felt like i finally found the girl i was meant to be with. we both kind of reawakened the other's hearts and had a very intense, intelluctual connection. she was also involved with someone else, who she had known longer than me and chooses to be with him bc her feelings are strongr, even though she has said she is falling for him. also, i am moving in 2 weeks to go back home. i feel empty inside without her, bc i dreamed of what our life would be like together. i know i can have other girls but i don't want anyone but her. i don't want my life without her.we are still friends but i can't even look at her or her photograph without hurting. i am 23 years old. how do i accept my life without her or learn not to dream of a life with her? right now, everything seems so painful, like everything is just stale gestures.

2006-12-02 19:20:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

falling for him should be falling for me. she said she is falling for me and cannot be around me bc of this

2006-12-02 19:21:12 · update #1

8 answers

You sound like a very sweet guy and I am sorry you are hurting.
It is hard to let go of what we dreamed of and wanted to have with someone,but when they have made their choice then we have to re-direct our lives.
I know this is easier said than done,but it needs to be done.
You sound so loving in your question and that is something that is part of you not part of her...trust me the hurt will fade and as long as you keep your heart open the right person will come along and be the one to share your dreams with.
You deserve a future with someone who will pick you.
Please hang in there I promise it does get easier.
1 day at a time sweetie :)

2006-12-02 19:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Throw yourself in to your work ! Work seven days a week 18 hours a day in no time you wont think of her, all you do is work!!!! Be leave me is works all you wont to do is sleep when you come home! Iv ed worked 17.5 hours to day its quiting time 1:30 AM been here sense 8:30 AM soon you wont miss her I don't miss the lying B I T C H at all NOT! Your 23 you have lots of time to find someone! Enjoy your freedom while you can.

2006-12-03 03:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

#1 - Dating is a process, it is meant to find a suitable mate
#2 - read rule #1
#3 - When dating you should never have only 1 mate until you have decided together (that means both) that it is going to be like that
#4 - read rule #2
#5 - Unless you are married review step #3 and proceed

2006-12-03 03:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Robert L 3 · 0 0

Bro, it'll be hard, but you will get over her. If you are moving in 2 weeks it will make things that much easier on you. E-delete her from your life and put all your other pictures in a box and store them. You will move on find someone just as good if not better. Just give it time.

2006-12-03 03:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0 0

This girl is confused...she's falling for you, yet is with someone else. She's torn between the two of you and someone is going to be hurt. My advice would be to try to focus on other interests for awhile...date other ppl, hang out with friends...GIVE IT TIME! Maybe she will come to terms with her feelings and make a decision to come back to you...but no matter how this works out, it is necessary for you to focus on your life. If she's meant to share your journey, then she will return...if she doesn't, then you will be better off finding out now.

2006-12-03 03:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you are really hurting arent you? If you need to talk I will talk with you! Ive been through this type of thing! Im me any time! Im 29 and married but i know about this situation you are going through, i have lots of advice if you need it!

2006-12-03 03:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0 0

You were being played, yo. She was still with the other guy, obviously. Get yourself tested for EVERYTHING. Including pregnancy.

2006-12-03 03:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by cybersst 2 · 0 0

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2006-12-03 03:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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