ladies why you girls lies about how many time you made love ? the answer is always 2 or 3 partners ? why?

Answer 1

Because while society deems it okay for men to have a number of partners, women who have been with more than 2 or 3 people are likely to be labeled as "sluts" and "whores," and many women have internalized this: if they say the real number, then they have to face it and feel like a slut. Plus, sometimes guys get uncomfortable if it is more people than he has been with or if it is a number than he feels is "a lot" or "too many."

I've asked a couple of friends of mine (one who has been with probably close the 30 men and one who is closer to 20) why they always say a lower number, and those are two of the reasons that they gave me.

Sometimes, it is just easier to lie instead of being labeled or dealing with the reaction of a partner. Besides, what you really should be asking is not how many people have you been with, but have you been tested for STDs and when was your last test. Some women may be pissed off about it, but oh well. Your life and health is more important than someone being offended.

Answer 2

How do you figure it's a lie? Maybe the women you meet choose their partners carefully and don't sleep with every man they meet. Isn't that possible at all? Don't jump to conclusions. It is entirely possible that they are telling the truth. And unless they give you some reason to doubt them, why not take what they say at face value. On the other hand, I'm sure some women do lie about the number of partners that they have had, and that is because women tend to be thought of as sluts if they've been with a larger number of people, even by men who have had the same number. I personally don't understand why you would choose to be with that many people if you will be ashamed about it in the end.

Answer 3

Because you men are sometimes jealous jerks. You don't really want to know how many partners we've had, do you? Other than to verify if its more or less than you, or to see if we are a "s lut." Honestly, what would you say if the answer was 9, 17, or 24? Do you want to picture that? If you meet someone special and you have a good relationship, it shouldn't matter. I say the only things you share about your past are marriages, babies, and diseases. All the little details aren't important. And all women are different. Would you rather be with a girl who had five one night stands or five long term relationships?

Answer 4

The reason we say that is because if a woman is honest with you man you look down on us like we should not have Had more than three partners now for you men why do some of you say that you have not been with more than three and we know that you guys have been with at least ten different partners

Answer 5

first of all, i understand i'm no longer a guy yet i'm gonna answer in any case. It quite relies upon on the style of guy. yet yeah a range of of adult men like harmless ladies, and some like dumb ladies who faux the have a mind of a 5 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous. yet maximum adult men are not in many situations in contact in the style of female who "pretends" to be dumb and harmless for an easily courting seeing that i might want to keep in mind that they could actual get uninterested in that style of female seeing that she acts like she would not understand something. And the adult men ur speaking about likely purely supply her that style of interest at the same time as she's round becuz they understand they could actual use her and then unload her. Sooo yeah

Answer 6

Then how about guys??? Why u guys lies how many u guys made love?? And the answers always 4 or 5...! Why!!!!

Answer 7

Why because society says we are slut's if we aren't virgins when we get married. And you (men - boy's) are called, oh you dah man, score!! you gigolos!!, a lady's man, or whatever else the new saying are now a day's. It's OK for the males but not the females. That's why!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Cause men always call us sluts!! When you men can stop making us women feel guilty about our sexual encounters, then maybe we would be more honesty.

Anyways.....it is personal and we have the right not to give u a right answer or even an answer at all!!!!!

Answer 9

yeah that is true girls are always lying about having love coz 1-the girl doesnt like the guy to think badly in her 2- to think that she is playing 3-she is runing after sex 4-she doesnt want you 2 think that she is easy 2 get.

Answer 10

Just so you know, some women may be telling the truth. In other cases, it may be because they don't want to scare someone off. If they are saying this to you, it may because they don't want you to know, possibly because they like you...though I doubt it if you have to ask why it's "always" that many.