there's this guy, he's in his mid twenties n' i'm in my mid teens...but sometimes, he thinks n' acts like a teenager...by the way, he's also my tutor...usually, he's flirty with me but there're some days he's cold...he's very understanding n' he seems want to know more about me n' my family...he also opens up to me n' we're comfortable with each other (not shy at all) but a little nervous...well, twice he told me he wanted to tell me something but no words came out from his mouth...so he said,'i'll tell u next time.' n' i waited...it seems like he's a little interested in me but when i secretly checked his profile on a website, he's in a relationship....so, what do u guys think??? what should i do??? thanks for reading n' answering my question...
2006-12-02 19:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by Marijuana 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away.... You said you are on your mid-teens, so I take that to be 15... He is on his mid-twenties, so he is around 25... that is a 10 year difference. This is not so bad after you turn 18, but it is a huge difference when you are a teenager. Besides, you have seen in a website that the guy is in a relationship. I am not saying that he doesnt like you, but odds of a happy ending are pretty slim. If you pursue this, you will probably have your heart broken. Try dating someone in his late teens if you want a guy that is more mature. Good luck!
2006-12-02 19:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 29 he basically is familiar with the thank you to play "the sport" extra constructive than you do. An hour and a a million/2 shuttle time, the two techniques for a a million/2 hour of definitely time spent with you... i'm sorry honey yet he's basically finding for slightly... ya understand. besides the fact that if he did no longer attempt something this time, he's basically warming up the oven and playing along with your thoughts. Any guy in his late 20s with any experience of decensy does no longer date a 17 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old. (particularly if he's married!!) in case you have been 27 and he replaced into 39, it does no longer be such and undertaking b/c you might have extra existence experience. yet your modern-day concern looks like a bad concept (with capital letters!). and besides the fact that if he and his spouse are "seeing human beings", you pronounced your self which you do no longer understand certainly if it relatively is the case... that, in of itself, could be an excellent wake-up call that this guy does no longer take you heavily sufficient to be in a relationship with you.
2016-10-17 15:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, I think that since he is older that if he really likes or care about you he shouldn't make a move until you are older. Because anyone older would know that a teenager wouldn't be as experience as a twenty something. Experience as in relationships and maturity. And if he has a girlfriend and giving you signals, he really doesn't care. If he can dog her, he can dog you to. Hope this will help.
2006-12-02 19:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by LMN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure and in most states they are called pedophiles and it is illegal. If he is in his 20s and likes teenagers it pretty much means he hasnt grown up yet and is insecure with his manhood and cant yet relate to women his own age. This would not be a good boyfriend or husband for that matter. Any such relationship is doomed from the start.
2006-12-02 19:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Robert L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to be your tutor. He thinks you're hot. It's making his job difficult.
Sounds to me like you are -hoping- for him to fall for you?
Leave him alone, get another tutor if you have to; no good will come of this.
2006-12-02 19:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he just playing with you.
What he wants to tell you is between two, I like you or I already has a gf.
He's quite flirty with you. I guess it won't be a problem to tell you he's like you.
The best thing to do is just ask him.
2006-12-02 19:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by ღSuzyneta Izziyaniღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet if you wore a sexy shirt exposing some cleavage he will try to make a move on you. That's if you have cleavage. LOL!
2006-12-02 20:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by miss tique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for him! He should leave you alone romantically otherwise he could get into serious trouble.
2006-12-02 19:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can happen but depending on how mid-teen you are might determine wether it does. life's a *****. there's others out there.
2006-12-02 19:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by eLad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to many consequences to end up dealing with. id say let him be your tutor and thats it.
2006-12-02 19:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋