My boyfriend and I have only been going out for six months and have had a very intense and close relationship since first meeting each other. In the beginning he always told me couples only went out w/o each other to go looking for other people to mess around with. Now all of a sudden he's constantly interested in going out with his friends, I'm always invited, although he never actually says that to me but expects me to get up and dressed when he does. When I say that I dont want to go out he doesnt give it a second thought, gets dressed, and leaves. When I ask why he goes out w/o mean and mentions what he said earlier in the relationship, he says that he only wants to go out with "his boys." Whats going on? Is he cheating? Or is he just bored with me? I feel like maybe its time to cut my loses and run...
2006-12-02 18:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by worried in LA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop crying. He just wants to get out of the house because he has has sex with you so many times that he realizes there are more things to do than you. My guess is that he just takes you for granted now and can take you or leave you. He is probably just going with the guys to have a beer and hang out. If you don't beleive that, then get off your lazy butt and go with him.
2006-12-02 19:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a guy just needs to with the guys. As long as the guy is trust worthy and his friends are trustworthy. There is no need to worry if he goes out with the guys. It is good for the relationship as long as he doesnt dis you for the boys all the time. When me and my husband first started dating we didnt do nothing apart. Which wasnt healthy But after 10 years I told him if he wanted to go somewhere with his friend I tell him go for it as long as I didnt want to go with or if i didnt have anything planned that day. But it is better to know if he is gonna cheat on you now then down the road where it will be hard on you
2006-12-03 03:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by candi0416 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is neither. Sometimes guys just like to hang out with the guys. Try going out with him the next time. It will give you a better idea of what he's doing and could set your mind at ease. Try asking him if he would like to go out and do something with you rather than going out with the guys. If he says no then it would probably be best to move on. It means that he doesn't really value or respect your relationship anymore.
2006-12-03 03:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was wrong when he said couples should not go out without one another. They definitely need time with friends and other interests. Otherwise the individuals in a relationship get depressed and messed up. Go out with him, or go out with your friends. Don't worry too much about the relationship or you will drive yourself or him crazy and you will destroy it.
2006-12-03 03:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by meep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be cheating or he may really just be going out w/ the boys... all i know is if your going to be in a relationship there has to be trust and if you don't trust him then you need to cut the ties... worse thing to do is accuse him of something.... no need in mentioning him cheating unless he gets calls from girls or you find female numbers or something like that... hickies, you know the obvious things.... until u find proof don't accuse... tell him he needs to start taking you w/ him.. if he just really rejects you over and over then probally something is up...
2006-12-03 03:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait around to find out? He is obviously having more fun without you. Once in a while without you isok,but if its constant then he is on the verge of dumping you most likely. Listen to your gut instinct.
2006-12-03 03:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 6 months, sex gets boring so he's probably looking for a new garage.
2006-12-03 03:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not cheating...nothing implies that he's cheating. and he HAS been inviting you to go. But does sound like he's slightly bored with you.
2006-12-03 03:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cold'nt say that now,but what shows up here that he needs 2 have some space,so give him this space and he'll come back
2006-12-03 03:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by rafayello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're dating a swinger!
2006-12-03 03:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by hey_its_from_clare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋