I am not physcially attracted to him. When he touches me, it makes my skin crawl, but he treats me like a QUEEN.
2006-12-02 17:51:48 · 9 answers · asked by cwtt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It won't work. I've been in a similar situation. I really liked him as a person, and he was good to me... but everybody (especially men) needs some lovin'. He will either cheat or break up with you if there is no physical activity. That's what happened to me anyway. He was a good person, but it just wasn't enough us just hanging out and no physical stuff. (I didnt' blame him from straying... that's just the way it is).
2006-12-02 17:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not physically attracted to him and he makes your skin crawl then you should break things off. If yall stay together he is gonna want to touch you. And if you only stay with him becasue he treates you good then you are in the making of becoming a golddigger. If you are not gonna give him the same attention and affection that he is giving you, you shouldnt put him throught that cause he could been and moved on and found someone that will appreciate him and want to be with him for him and not just becasue he treates them like a Queen. Good luck!!!
2006-12-02 18:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I have been there. I dated a man who really treated me like a queen and wanted to spend time with me AND my kids, thought that was impossible to find but physically, there was nothing. He was somewhat over weight and had a hairy back which really bugged me but he was one of the nicest guys I ever met. I ended up ending the relationship because I didn't feel the same way he did and I somewhat regret it to a point but I realize now that it never would have worked out because the feelings were not mutual between us and that wasn't being fair to him. He deserved someone who could love him for who he was and accept him the way he was, not someone who would not find every thing about him attractive. That is an important part of a relationship and eventually he did find and marry someone and I hope that they are truly happy together. I did and I am happier than I have ever been.
2006-12-02 17:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by lilphill1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he treats you like a queen... if you don't like the guy you don't like him. Your not being fair to him or to yourself if you string him along just because he treats you like gold.
For some people physical attraction is very important and its not superficial to say that you have to be physically attracted to a man to even BEGIN to like him. Your just being honest with yourself. Life is too short to waste your time with someone that makes your skin crawl. Go out and find somebody that you prefer to be all over you... someone that gives you goosebumps and not the fricking hives!
2006-12-02 18:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but that relationship is over. Physical attraction is not everything, but it DOES count. The first time he does not treat you like a queen you will want to be out of town faster than a fugitive being chased by the popo..
2006-12-02 17:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by yourchamp23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there has to be some attraction or it just wont work out,no matter how well he treats you.
2006-12-02 17:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by patty m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but you should let the guy go before one of you crashes. Your reactions will or already has affected him as well.
2006-12-02 17:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably break it off. If there is something about him that doesn't sit well with you, it probably never will.
2006-12-02 17:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes...
stop questioning......
and ....
2006-12-02 17:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by amit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋