hi my name is tatiana...well i'm so tied of my life because i go to school i came home and then my grandparents star to bitching at me and my dad strat to hit....even if don't even so nothing .... but yes i'm tired i even go to school on saturday...so i don't have to be home fight with them .. and geting in trouble for nothing ....i don't know what to do i think that i'm just a bad girl ...put i'm not i'm a good girl i like to help and i even clean the house...when i came from to school..too...and baby sit...........i'm so tired.....of my life...help me please
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2006-12-02 17:50:56 · 14 answers · asked by tati or tatiana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wow........thts sucks really bad...sorry
2006-12-02 17:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by huh? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus Tatiana, focus. Visualize your goals. Focus on your future and education so that you can provide yourself a better life, a better home some day. You sound like a good person. Concentrate on continuing to be the best person YOU can be. Unfortunately you cannot control your grandparents or your father. Fortunately YOU CAN control how you are going to react to them. Don't let others affect whether or not you'll feel sad or tired, don't let others decide how you will feel. YOU decide how you'll react to them. Be happy. Get some rest, it sounds like you are an awesome girl and have been working hard! Continue to focus, don't stray. It must be hard having so many people older than you in your life. Don't let it all get to you. Just continue to be a better person each day.
2006-12-03 02:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey my name is Tasha and I can kinda relate to what you are going through. I'm a goody goody and I do exactly what I'm told all the time. I rarely do anything wrong but always and getting yelled at by my parents. The best thing to do is to believe things will get better. I know you are probably thinking "What if it doesn't?" Well I believe it will. I don't know who you are and I don't know anything about you but use your life as a way to learn what not to do to your children when you get older. Always keep in mind that you aren't alone in the world with this problem. If you need help someone to talk to just email me at ttlyhuggable@yahoo.com. I can help. I am only 16 but I have gone through more crap in my life then many people I know. And if you let me I can help you with your problems. I hope everything goes better for you. Remember once you graduate you can get out...and move far away from it all. God Bless You!
Tasha
2006-12-03 13:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have breath in your body you can change a thing. Rest assure, you are not here for nothing. So please don't do anything rash.
Sometimes we are delt blows we didn't ask for, but the real challenge is being able to stand to encorage someone else who are in worse shape than you.
If you didn't go through your issues, you wouldn't know how to help some one else . As time races, you won't be going through this much longer.
Take this time to map out your goals. Study hard and then go to college. The sooner you map out a plan the quicker you can get out on your own. So start preparing now.
Nevertheless, continue to be respectful to your family members and do not share your plan with anyone, period!
Remember, you are some one special, even if you are the only one who thinks so. I know that because it's your family, it hurts. We don't chose our parents but we can chose other things.
So, brush the dust off your feet and smile, it won't be long now!
When all else fells, look up, those who can look up can get up.
God Bless
2006-12-03 02:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by mapleavenue456 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and don't come home at night. Tell your grandparents you're partaking in an after school activity long enough till you save up enough money then buy yourself an apartment and move in by yourself. You'll thank yourself 5 years from now that you're strong enough to live on your own. It will carry with you through out life in your quest for independence. But don't be a bytch to people. I hate independent woman that think they don't need a man. Trying being celibate your whole life you Destiny's Child worshippers. GOD I HATE DESTINY"S CHILD
2006-12-03 05:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mike Hunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?If you are old enough,get a job and move out.If not,avoiding them would be helpful.What's the reason?.Keep yourself busy with things outside the home.Do some volentire work.At least you'll be away from them.I am sorry,hang in there.There is a god after all.Some day thing will get better.
2006-12-03 02:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are that bad,perhaps you should ask another adult for help. Maybe counselor at school or a clergyman?
Don't feel your life is over...life is what you make it.You have to go on for yourself.Even if others don't show you love,you have to love yourself.Good Luck!
2006-12-03 01:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not bad. THEY are. They should get FUBAR (f***ed up by a Redneck ((that's my interpritation of the acronym)) ).
Talk to a teacher or another adult that you can trust. They will help you. It shouldn't hurt just to be a kid.
Good Luck and my prayers go out to you.
2006-12-03 01:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by Prez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you didn't see that worth of what you are doing...just appreciate everything you do in your life. Just put your heart into it and after a day of a tiring stuff you'll smile...
2006-12-03 01:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jub-jub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang. it is shitty. but dn't give up so fast. life IS hard but that doesn't mean that u can't survive. every person on this planet has a problem, some give up and lose but some keep on fightin and win.
2006-12-03 04:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by mangarocka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should move out asap!
These people are very damaging and negative!
2006-12-03 01:53:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋