Seven years ago I gave my Mom a chihahua for her B-day.I know they're 1 person dogs but he's nice to everyone but me.When I got him I kept him in a dog carrier for 2 days and couldn't coax him out . I've never hurt him on the contrary i've done all I could to win him over. He's come along a little but not much,I can only get near him thats all,once he ate jerky from my hand but only with Mom around.How can I win him over 7 years is long to hold a grudge!!he's got to get over it right??We've made progress but little and slowly.Sometimes I think he enjoys it cause Mom says he looks for me when Im not around and seems to miss me!!Is this a game to him or is there a chance for reconciliation between me and the little mutt?! I like him and would like to someday pet and give him affection but I cant even pick him up now what do I do have I in someway scarred him by scaring him,Once I chased him round the house but didn't hurt him he's very spoiled its ridiculous!!!!
2006-12-02 17:08:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
Your history with the dog is in the past. He doesn't remember whatever happened beyond the last time he ate a meal. The problems you indicate stem from: not enough exercise, boredom, lack of mental stimulation, and leadership.
The dog doesn't respect you. Coddling the animal doesn't help. He thinks you are the bottom of the heap, which I am sure you are not. The problem can be fixed.
Regularly walk him long and far until he is exhausted. Make sure he follows you, and goes through doors after you. Do not react to his undesirable behaviors. Do not let your actions follow the dog's cue. Ask him to do something for you (sit or lie down) before you pet him, or give him a treat.
If he doesn't know what to do, train him. He will respect those he has to work for. Dogs also like the intellectual stimulation of learning. You are building the dog's vocabulary of understanding.
Have patience. Drop expectations and don't hold your breath, or your emotions and interrupted breathing will out you to the dog. Just enjoy anything about him that inches towards good behavior. He'll come around. Good luck!
2006-12-02 18:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Em E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'm not a Chihuahua fan, they are not my idea of a dog I'd like to have as a pet. He sounds like a spoiled brat that knows he can treat you any way he wants. I say just ignore the little monster.
2006-12-02 17:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by patti duke 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is leash trained, taking him for walks is the best way to bond and make best friends..a harness, rather than a collar is best for walking little dogs..
Next ime he goes to the vet for shots or such..take your mom home, and YOU be the one to rescue him..that always works, too..
the same with the groomer..Have mom Take him in to have his nails clipped, and ask that they put him in a cage for a little while, then YOU be the one to rescue him..(nails just cost $6 or so..)
2006-12-02 17:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Chetco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm able to tell via the writing you're very youthful so theres not any component you're able to do. this would not ensue in my homestead. NO physique is allowed to deliver a pit to my homestead. grampa desires to deliver cousin homestead . tell him in no thank you to deliver the canine back and that he desires to earnings some concerns earlier he can come back. you didnt say how previous cousin is yet while hes a minor i could call he confirm and tell them they could do a extra helpful activity elevating him.
2016-12-13 19:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask whoever normally feeds, walks, and grooms him if you can take over for awhile. If the dog begins to assiciate you with good things, the love will come later! Playing helps too :)
2006-12-02 17:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sirius's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just a good judge of character- only kidding. Continue to give him treats and he will eventually tolerate you, maybe even like you. Good luck.
2006-12-02 17:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by luther 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep working with him. Give him treats and talk nice to him. I know in time he will love you.
2006-12-02 17:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do exactly what FutureMom says. she is absolutely right
2006-12-02 17:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol........tuff luck
2006-12-02 17:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by huh? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋