I'm dating a goody goody tusues and outta nowhere she wants to have sex.....I love her but will this ruin everything..also I would feel guilty (i'm 13!)
2006-12-02 17:03:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just make sure you wear a condom, unless you want to be a grandfather at 39...
2006-12-02 23:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not ready, tell her!!! Don't do it unless you feel totally comfortable and ready for it. She probably just wants to fit in. If she really cares about you, she will wait. And when you are ready, take precaution. Use condoms & some other form of contraceptive. No contraceptive is 100% guarenteed to work all of the time. I doubt you are ready at 13 to become a father. Be careful! Good luck!
2006-12-02 17:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by nobodyinparticular...lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see why you don't want to. Trust me on this. It will be alot better for the both of you if you Don't do it. I've heard stories. If you do, here are some of the things that might happen,
1. She could get "Knocked Up". (Note: they only get pregnant when they are married.)
2. She could claim that you mosslested her. (Note: This is one of the second biggest reason not to.)
3. You could be caught & be Suspended from school for a few years. (That's if you're lucky.)
So for the reasons stated please refrain from doing this & this will save you & her alot of grief in later life. She might not see it right off, but if you say No, She'll thank you in later life.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-02 17:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. You're a little young. Tell her you'd like to but many things could happen if you began having sex. Especially because you're 13, you have no idea of the consiquences. If you're ready and know what it's all about then alright but seriously, think about it, age 13.
2006-12-02 17:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to deal with the consequences of sex? (pregnancy, disease, parents going mental) Rule one: Don't do anything you don't want to do. Rule two: No means no.
You seem to have made the right decision already. Just say, "Sorry I'm not ready for a sexual relationship. I know you want to, but I'm not ready. There are so many things that could go wrong and I'm just not prepared to deal with those consequences."
2006-12-02 17:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. And tell her that she's special to you and you're willing to wait and don't want sex to get in the way of building a strong foundation for your relationship. At your age having sex will complicate things...it's not worth it, and you can have a meaningful relationship without it. Just because some people have it doesn't mean you have to copy what they do. Be true to yourself, your values and your intuition.
2006-12-02 17:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Angie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, don't do it, you're 13, and if you would feel guilty then you shouldn't do it.
Just tell her that you don't want to ruin everything. If she hates you for it, who cares? You're 13 and there's plenty of other people. Imagine if she got pregnant? Just tell her how you feel.
2006-12-02 17:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just met a guy who was ordered to pay $65,000 in back child support and medical payments for twin girls he had from a one night stand when he was 15. Makes you think twice Huh?
2006-12-02 17:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by loveroffreedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo don't do it until you're ready dawg.
i lost a chick around the same age cause i wouldn't do her. then had another one cheat on me to have sex with another guy all before i was 16.
it was all worth it a few years later.
2006-12-02 17:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it! Ur nit missing snything, and ur smart cause u spperantly know betta. Tell her 2 calm her little hot *** down! If she really cares, she will stop trying 2 be grown, and wait. good Luck
2006-12-02 17:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by 1hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋