Good friends of mine are gettind married soon. the problem is i've had an affair with the bide-to-be. not something planed. just happened. she's since told me she loves me but couldn't face her family if she pulled out. he wants me to be his best man but how do i refuse that without telling him why? not only that, a hand full of other close friends know about what happened. i love this girl more than anything i.ve known but sometimes are thing to complicated to ever work?
2006-12-02 17:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by eLad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweet heart ! RUN!!!!! This girl is a beautiful disaster .You can't possibly trust her to be faithful to you after what you both are doing .youare about to ruin alot of lives . You need to ask youself
is this the type of person I want to be my wife, but before you answer that put yourself in your friends shoes. Love Does Not Hurt People,but Lust Can Get You Killed.
2006-12-02 17:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by puddin' 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are things that are too difficult to work out. This is definitely one of those times. Tell the groom that you're just not comfortable standing in front of all those people and that you're sorry you can't. End the conversation there...just make up some excuse. As far as she goes, if she doesn't want to end the wedding plans, then it's her mistake. Nothing you can do about it. I understand that you love her, have you made sure she knows how you feel? If you have, she's made up her choice. Let her get out of this if she really wants to.
2006-12-02 17:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 20:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough!!!
If it happened once, and you can be strong enough to just wish them the best.. Let it go. Don't let it happen again and find another fish out there....there are plenty.
If it happens again, well you may have a big problem and may not have any friends if (it means anything to you). If you risk it , it maybe your very own drama .
2006-12-02 17:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If love were to pursue, then go break free from the chains and love that girl.
But do remember this saying "No pain, No gain". You should have told the truth before-hand.
2006-12-02 17:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Klyde L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont get any sympathy from me!!
you are both cheating liars who deserve each other
how could you do that to a mate
what rot saying it just happened
you let it happen!!
you made the choice to play up with her.
you could never trust her & likewise you can't be trusted neither.
you made your bed now you have to lie in it so to speak
2006-12-02 17:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU ARE IN A SITUATIION., SHE NEED TO BE THE
ONE THAT DOES THE RIGHT THINGS. SHE THE ONE'THAT
MARRY THIS MAN, AND IFSHE LOVES YOU THEN WHY
IS SHE STILL MARRY THIS MAN. AS FOR YOU. DONT
'DO ANYTHING. BECUAUSE YOU KNOW THAT WHAT
GOES AROUND WILL COME BACK. AS FOR THE BEST
MAN, IF SHE WAS HONEST WITH HER FEELING FROM THE
BEGINNING YOU ALL WOULD NOT BE HERE DONT YOU
THINK.
2006-12-02 17:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes things can get pretty complicated.
2006-12-02 17:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋