Ok, im not that great looking, im not horrible looking but im far from looking great, i try to make up for it with my personality, but how do i get a girl to notice me since im not attractive, i always try to be very nice and all and i think im easy to get along with but girls just never seem to notice me, any advice is appreciated. Also i am shy.
2006-12-02 16:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww. I want you! LOL.
you sound like such a swete and honest person.
Girls really notice personality.
I was at Lowe's tonight and a guy who had the best manners and sweetest personality helped me. His name was Nathaniel and I'll remember him for while.
Just be yourself, be polite, sweet, and have a great personality and you'll do great .
& if not, then she's a stupid *****.
heehee.
you can do better.
2006-12-02 16:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by DisneyLover 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just carry on being nice the way u are and soon somebody worth having will notice you. Not sure how old u are but girls in thier mid-20s or older realise that personality is the most important factor in a guy. Younger girls just go for looks bcuz they are inexperienced.
Main thing is to smile a lot - a smile makes ALL the difference to a face. Try wearing clothes which are fashionable. Wear trendy fragrances. Stick up for girls when they get bullied on by strangers (be the hero!) and if u have acne then get antibiotics for it. If u have a bald patch, shave ur head so that u look younger. Just a few tips to helps you!
2006-12-02 16:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lara D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could you join her in a class or sport she's interested in? If you can strike a common interest, it gives you something to talk about and break the ice.
Being a sincere, nice guy. Good manners, polite, show an interest in what she's doing/saying.
I know, the good looking guys (and girls) do get the most attention - but looks only get you so far.
2006-12-02 16:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is probably hurting you more, than you not being very good looking (as you think). A lot of girls are just as shy, or more than you are, and if you can't talk to them, and they can't talk with you either---it's hard to get much going. Personality and a great sense of humor goes a really long ways.
2006-12-02 16:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about confidence, I too am average looking and pretty shy around women. But I am loud and confident when I have an audience around me, whether this is my friends or hers.
You need to find a right way of increasing your confidence
A radio station recently had a good answer, buy a rose and give it to a passing women, she will be embarresed, and will also be off guard. She will also be shy about it and will often (unless she has a BF) dive out her number.
It will also give you a huge confident boost.
2006-12-02 16:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's a decent girl, she'll go for personality. Honestly, any girl who would want to spend a long time with just a pretty face will get bored easily. I would recommend doing things other guys don't. First, try to get to know her, what she does and doesn't like, etc... If you like a girl, maybe do sweet but subtle things to get her attention. You obviously don't want to seem like you're stalking her. Like on her birthday maybe send her flowers, or send her a note asking how she's doing today. Things like that can get you started. Don't just say how you feel right off, may scare her away...but if you do like her, let her get to know you. Very subtle hints can go a long way.
2006-12-02 16:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work out and get some muscles. Shallow girls think muscles make up for the face, if the face isn't hot.
But...
Girls that aren't shallow still see your face, but they don't judge it as harshly as shallow girls. Stick to your own personality; be funny and sensitive.
I remember a lot of people that I liked weren't the most attractive people in the world, but I still liked them all the same.
2006-12-02 16:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth, girls don't care about looks. Or at least they don't once they get to know you. Become friends with them and then move in. Once a girl has gotten to know you she won't say no to a date. (I married a shy, physics major, who never dated. He is funny and good looking but I never noticed until we were friends) Good Luck
2006-12-02 16:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Beckaboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm very shy too...so i would say to just be yourself cuz you dont want a girl to like you for who u are not. so be yourself and have more confidence in yours and its not all about the looks and i mean would you have a hot girlfriend and have her be sooooo STUPID or not that good looking and have a good personality........hopeu picked the 2nd one i would too. ok well hope this helped....and if she dosent end up likeing you...itz all right aparently she's not the one for u...the right one will come along soon....dont worry about it.....again good luck..bye
2006-12-02 16:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tough question. i think you have to continue to present youreself as a really nice and sweet guy. Also, try to be witty or funny. I have dated guys that were nice (really sweet), and witty even though i was not initially physically attracted to them.
2006-12-02 16:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by ca belle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋