my brother in law has always been mean to me im turning 35 and well i guess hes being mean to me is well turning me on somtimes i think i want to have *** with him he never toched me or anything but hes so hot i have 2 notebooks full of "i love dylan gonzalez more than robby" (robby=husband) i kissed him once well i did it to him and my husband cuaght us but it was under the missle toe so he didnt take it hard. but i cant help it he is so hot!!!!!!!! now latly hes been avoiding me wat i do when i love my brother-in-law more than my actual husband?
2006-12-02 16:28:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes this could lead to one messy triangle ...maybe you need to get a vibe.........
2006-12-02 16:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, I have a very hard time believing you're anywhere near 35...unless you're severely mentally handicapped. I'm 35 and haven't written "I love ____" in a notebook, diary or anywhere else, in years.
For arguments sake, let's pretend you are an actual adult. You do NOT want to mess with his brother. It can only end badly. A regular affair or one night stand is bad enough, but when you involved relatives, you are asking for something REALLY bad to happen. You will ruin the brother's relationship (and even if it's not that good already, it is NOT your business to make it worse), not to mention the relationship your brother-in-law has with the rest of the family.
Another thing that might happen is that everyone turns on you. Maybe your husband and his brother can work things out between themselves, but you will ALWAYS be the one who almost came between family.
It's just wrong. Keep your feelings to yourself. If you feel the need to cheat, tell your husband why you must leave him. You're not being fair to him, his brother or yourself.
2006-12-03 00:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by davega7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is not love - its just lust. They are 2 different things.
Looks like u just have the hots for him. Its possible u have got mentally/emotionally detatched from ur hubby recently and this is making u think of dylan more. You really need to sort ur loyalties out or u run the risk of losing them BOTH.
Dylan will not want you......... you are ditching his brother! So get out of this trans fast and go burn those notebooks before they get seen and u will be in the shits.
Spend more time with ur hubby and take him out and treat him etc...... and communicate that u are worried about how distant u have become. I am sure he is feeling the same way
2006-12-03 00:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lara D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first you have to get out of the relationship and go find yourself a new man. obvisously you are not in love anymore. DONT mess around with your brother in law. these fantasies you have and writing in your journal about him will lead to cheating. and if you cheat on your husband with his brother you can bet you will all be on the jerry springer show.
2006-12-03 00:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by 2011 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like love to me. Maybe lust - BIG DIFFERENCE! This situation will probably turn into a disaster, unless you get smart and realize what you are doing. Putting your feelings aside, don't do this to brothers.
2006-12-03 00:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your brother-in-law may have come to his senses, and is avoiding you because he realizes the trouble and hurt all this is going to cause! you need to get a grip on reality, and put a stop to all this nonsense right now.
people are going to get hurt, including you! so please do the right thing.
2006-12-03 00:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you must have loved your husband at one point, you married him! So forget the brother in law, and get "hot " with your husband
2006-12-03 00:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are a slut. Sorry. Gross he is your husbands brother, have you no shame?
2006-12-03 00:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go watch the new movie that came out. Its called "WHORE ISLAND." Do you have no shame? What the hell is wrong with you? Show some discipline in you nasty body.
2006-12-03 00:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
yeaaaa..go see a Psychiatrist not da internet you whore
2006-12-03 00:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by M3XiCANA;] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋