There is this guy who im really good friends with and i really value his friendship but i really like him 2, i wanna ask him out but im afraid if he says no it will ruin our friendship, also he just got asked out by another girl and i think he said no, so im kinda afraid now
2006-12-02 16:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well there's only one way to get over it. that's to do it and find out. you can always just try and spend more time alone with him and slowly see if he'll understand.
maybe he said no to the other girl cause he has you in mind...
2006-12-02 16:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life and get out there and ask him. If you wait next thing you know hes going to hook up with some other girl and you will forever kick yourself for not making the move. And no its not always the guys job to ask first, what day and age are we living in????? Make the move don't let him get away.....
Good Luck
2006-12-02 16:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by wasatchjeeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would thing long and hard about it before you make a move. Are you sure you want to be more then friends with him? If you are sure then make your move but if you aren't sure then step back and take sometime to think it over. I would hate for you to lose a friendship over this.
2006-12-02 16:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend I really liked, and he liked me back...we dated for a while, but it didn't work out. We ended on good terms, and even though we aren't close friends anymore, I wouldn't trade what we had for anything, & I'm glad I decided to find out .... I say try to get him to ask you out ;)
2006-12-02 16:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by AnyaNYC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he values your friendship as much as you value his then It shouldn't ruind your friendship even if he says no. I asked out one of my best friends twice and we are still best friends.
2006-12-02 16:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT MAKE THE FIRST MOVE
ahhhhhhhh it is so not cool for the girl to ask the guy. let him do it. it is his job. start by telling him how you feel about him. then see where it goes... good luck sweetie!
2006-12-02 16:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id go ahead and ask this guy. for all you know he couldve said no to this other girl because the feelings you have for him may be mutual. good luck.
2006-12-02 16:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by LEEANE G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid that hill say no be thankful if he sais yes
2006-12-02 16:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him about romance, adn see if you guys match up, if you do it will happen, if not, then it wasnt meant to be.
2006-12-02 16:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, he will not say no.
2006-12-02 16:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋