how can you tell if a guy cares about you?

Question

i think my guy friend cares about me he is concerned about everything i do. when ever i go out he is were are you going and who are you going with but not like in a jealous way just making conversation and he kisse me and hugs me and kisses me when his friends are around but he says were just friends and he got mad because i called him on baby by accident why is it only ok for him to call me that? and he says i come on a little to strong why is he even paying attention if were jsut friends

Answer 1

Some guys just like to be affectionate, but that doesn't always mean they want a relationship with you. I guess it makes them feel like more of a man when they can swoon a woman like that. Who knows? Do you think he may be gay? I don't know him at all, but it's just something to think about. I've had friends that have acted like that, because they were in denial. Anyway, if he says he is just your friend, than tell him don't kiss you or call you sweet names anymore unless he's ready to turn the friendship into something else. Stand your ground!

Answer 2

Thats very strange of him to act that way. I'm sure he really cares about you and he doesnt want you to get hurt physically or mentally. If he's always hugging you and kissing you, but says that you two are only friends, he shouldnt get mad if you got the wrong signal.

Answer 3

oh yea. Typical. This guy cares about you, definitely. He's scared of a commitment, that's the prob. He's probably falling in love wit u but doesn't want u 2 know, that's why he's tryin 2 be a jerk.
You shd sit him down and have a heart 2 heart conversation.
If ur ready for a commitment, let ur heart guide his. I think u'll be fine. Good luck.

Answer 4

There's more going on here. A guy doesn't kiss and hug a girl unless there's chemicals bubbling; he doesn't push her away unless there's some conflict going on -- or there's something really off, like covering something up.

I'd say you need to make him decide between being friends and being more.

Answer 5

I have a couple of guy friends, and I know which one care as friends and which one care a bit more;)
Some men are just more protective then others, but I think your friend likes you. He is just isn't sure if he can take the next step.

Answer 6

He likes you. Pull away and be cool. Guys want to pursue, ie.they think the most attractive part of a girl is her back. Show interest in someone else. Don't be too available. I know this sounds regressive, but it's a biological verity--it works!

Answer 7

If he doesn't just listen and try to solve your problems with criticism, but rather communicate his feelings in an affectionate way. Warm self disclosure of feelings creates true intimacy. Anything short of this, he doesn't love you enough to share, and if this is the case, just LJBF him, (a.k.a. Lets Just Be Friends).

Answer 8

if he doesn't care about you in a romantic way, he could be gay. because he certainly like he likes you a lot. one way or another. On the other hand he could lust be one of those caring nice guys who don't want anything but good honest friendship. it does happen you know.

Answer 9

he sounds like a player. he wants to know where all his women go so that he don't get played by another player making a move in his women. he don't want you to call him baby because he has many prospected women that might be around and doesn't want to be attached so he can spit game to have them on his team.

Answer 10

he has another squeeze
you are likely sporting some attractive attribute like breasts and yet not his "type'
don't be flattered by someone wanting to kiss you and hug you most boys would kiss a frog if it were well endowed